snikerbarz Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Me and my ex dated for over 5 months and she ended it in early august. She just got into a new relationship, however; I'm skeptical this relationship is legit and here's why: The breakup didn't go as she expected, she delivered it to me cold but due to the way I handled it, she was surprised and definitely confused when I left so calmly. -I didn't chase (sent an email after 3 months saying thanks) -I'm an athlete and ever since being dumped, I'm doing really well (were on the same sports team but only see each other at competitions). I've also cut weight and added muscle -I largely try and act indifferent to her shenanigans -she hasn't contacted me other than to reply to the email -I didn't want to have sex with her (bad gut feeling) -during the relationship I treated her well and with respect Physical contact: -we seen each other at four parties. On the first occasion she started hugging and flirting with every dude once I got there and proceeded to throw up an hour later (the second and third parties she was probably to embarrassed after what happened at the first). The fourth party was when she basically went public to everyone with the new guy BUT... on two occasions she went out of her way to overtly interrupt my interactions: a. I was talking to a senior about something while sitting down. She comes up to him and bends down to hug him... they haven't had any significant type of interaction (plus there were a ton of people at this party). b. 10 minutes later, me and my beer pong partner are waiting for next game. She walks directly up to us... hugs the guy to my right and left... -she briefly glanced at me before hugging the guy in situation a The new guy: -he's not nearly as physically attractive -my teammate but... he's one of the worst athletes (I'm one of the best on the team) -has TERRIBLE body language, mine is pretty good -gets constantly amog'd... and sometimes I feel like he's trying to seek my approval -he's a freshmen, she's a sophomore (I'm a junior) Why I think she choose him: -the holidays are in a few weeks... doesn't want to spend them alone -misses being in a relationship -a good number of her teammates and concurrently friends are entering relationships -I speculate that he was the first person to ask her on a date after she dumped me -she's a virgin and she wants cock without looking like a slut So LS, what do you think? Rebound? Trying to get a reaction out of me? tbh... I give it three months... The dude seems like such a downgrade and it seems like she's trying to make me jealous or get some sort of ego confirmation (doesn't need to text because she sees me every 2 weeks or so). Thanks for your input guys.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Almost every relationship at that age is a rebound if you ask me.
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