Grinder88 Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 I don't know if you've found these guys on Youtube yet, I've been watching them since they started and they are really starting to take off. They are three early 20 something guys who go out and try to get numbers from random girls. Although their methods are unconventional and I probably never would try it they do have a pretty good message overall. You shouldn't be afraid to take chances and shouldn't be afraid to fail. Just have fun with it. Having fun with it takes away the stress and nervousness. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIu20j0ecy8&feature=g-u
Cracker Jack Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Yeah, I've been watching them for awhile. They really enjoy the game of approaching women--and make it look so fun. I wish I could adapt that mentality.
jobaba Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 I don't know if you've found these guys on Youtube yet, I've been watching them since they started and they are really starting to take off. They are three early 20 something guys who go out and try to get numbers from random girls. Although their methods are unconventional and I probably never would try it they do have a pretty good message overall. You shouldn't be afraid to take chances and shouldn't be afraid to fail. Just have fun with it. Having fun with it takes away the stress and nervousness. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIu20j0ecy8&feature=g-u Yea. Not bad. Love the mentality. However, I will say hitting on girls in mini skirts and high heels at bars and clubs if you are not the most attractive guy is a recipe for an endless string of rejections at best and possibly getting your a@@ kicked at worst. It also won't really help you approach girls in the real world, because you're using the crutch of liquid courage. Been there done that. But the expect to be rejected and slowly becoming immune to the sting of rejection idea ... love it.
Author Grinder88 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Posted December 13, 2011 Yeah this mentality seems kind of weird but it is true. I used to use alcohol as a social lubricant and have to get a few drinks in me before I would even consider an approach. But lately I've been doing what these guys do, I flirt every chance I get. Doesn't mater what age or what they look like. Just to get comfortable talking to women in that way. Even if Im holding the door for an old lady she says thanks ill say something like "I always open doors for a pretty face" or something like that (usually well recieved) Now Im so used to talking and flirting I don't really drink and just start conversations with girls and just have fun cause I really quit caring and quit trying. lol....wow I just realized I pretty much just described myself/summarized that video I posted.WIN?
counterman Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 I've been following them regularly and love what they do. I would love to have a friend who I could share experiences with like these guys do and we could also encourage each other. It sometimes sucks when I'm approaching girls myself because I would love to talk to someone about it but don't usually. Mainly because my friends don't approach girls at all and when I have brought it up, they've always tried to make me feel bad (mainly because they're too scared to do it themselves). These guys do have great mentality, as you have guys have said, which is something I am definitely working towards. Just need to put in consistent effort. Even they've admitted themselves that the videos make it seem easier than it really is, but the point is to keep on plugging away and not take rejections so seriously. Rejection is hilarious. And as they've shown, it can be really fun.
Necromancer Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 I enjoyed watching this,these guys have balls! But there is one thing that i disagree and that´s that looks don´t matter and really getting girls phone number does not mean that much. Maybe she is trying to blow him off or just gives him wrong number....so always call her right after you type it in
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