ThinkPink218 Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Feelings are the worse!!! One day I'm accepting of everything and the next I'm angry that he doesn't see how he was wrong in his attempt at trying to be my friend. How he can befriend everyone else, but not me. I guess I always thought that I would hear from him again like all the other times, but I haven't this time and the reality of that is starting to get to me. Grrrr
mike588 Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Feelings are the worse!!! One day I'm accepting of everything and the next I'm angry that he doesn't see how he was wrong in his attempt at trying to be my friend. How he can befriend everyone else, but not me. I guess I always thought that I would hear from him again like all the other times, but I haven't this time and the reality of that is starting to get to me. Grrrr It's best you don't hear from him so you can move on,, staying in touch with an ex. keeps you at square one. I too was hoping to hear from my ex. but it's been 4 months and last month I finally realized it's really over,,acceptance of the finality of it is not easy. Keep up N.C.,, it's really the best way to heal.
Author ThinkPink218 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Posted December 13, 2011 It's best you don't hear from him so you can move on,, staying in touch with an ex. keeps you at square one. I too was hoping to hear from my ex. but it's been 4 months and last month I finally realized it's really over,,acceptance of the finality of it is not easy. Keep up N.C.,, it's really the best way to heal. I'm 2 months into NC. I've accepted that we aren't getting back together and that I have to move on, but I did expect an attempt on his part to reach out to me somehow like he's done all the other times and he hasn't. I want him to acknowledge the ways in which he was wrong and he doesn't seem too, he's just happily moving on in life. I know it's best I do NC but I was at least hoping he'd try to reach out, even if I don't reply.
mike588 Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 I'm 2 months into NC. I've accepted that we aren't getting back together and that I have to move on, but I did expect an attempt on his part to reach out to me somehow like he's done all the other times and he hasn't. I want him to acknowledge the ways in which he was wrong and he doesn't seem too, he's just happily moving on in life. I know it's best I do NC but I was at least hoping he'd try to reach out, even if I don't reply. I guess he's just moved on and doesn't feel he needs to reach out to you anymore. Your probably wasting your time hoping he will tell you that he was wrong,we all want that.
Author ThinkPink218 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Posted December 13, 2011 Yea you're probably right. This just motivates me to become better that much more!
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