ChipsnSalsa Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Hi, Ok, here is the scoop. There is a woman that I like and I think she knows it. I think she likes me too but she is downplaying it, playing a little hard to get. So fast forward, she posted a pic of her on FB... should I compliment her pic or just not at all... Thanks, Chips
snug.bunny Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 I don't think people should compliment other people. I don't think people deserve to be complimented. Personally, I don't even think they deserve the time it would take for someone to type "I think your photo looks nice".
Author ChipsnSalsa Posted December 12, 2011 Author Posted December 12, 2011 I don't think people should compliment other people. I don't think people deserve to be complimented. Personally, I don't even think they deserve the time it would take for someone to type "I think your photo looks nice". Ok, that's one take on it... anyone else?
Eddie Edirol Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Do you understand her hard to get game? Do you know what that means? Do you notice she isnt complimenting you? Because if you compliment her, youre automatically giving up your mystery. And its the mystery that might attract her to you. Dont compliment her, just win her over with humor charm, and just altogether fun. But dont compliment someone who has done nothing for you.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 When a girl plays hard to get...you don't try harder, you try less. You should be able to attract women by not..."trying", I know that sounds a little ridiculous but as soon as you put yourself out there you'll step on a bear trap and she'll leave you to be feasted on by the wolves. Don't give her the attention, don't play the game...that is the point. Too many guys are punks and just chase, don't be a loser basically as If she is the only one you're after. She'll just add you to the list of "nice guys" that follow her around like puppies waiting for her to let them lick her hand. Your pride, and who you are as a man should always be more important than any woman, have expectations for yourself and just walk away If needed...unless you are with a woman that you can trust, and you're in love with her and she feels the same, but that's it. Otherwise If women aren't playing by your rules, they're playing by theirs...which is never good for a man if you ask me.
snug.bunny Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Ok, that's one take on it... anyone else? I was being facetious... Alas, it looks like you've gotten some 'quality' advice otherwise, so good luck! Like Eddie said "dont compliment someone who has done nothing for you". So that means, don't tell her anything that is remotely nice unless she's done something for you first. Make her earn it, dangle the string, **woof woof**
cerridwen Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Hi, Ok, here is the scoop. There is a woman that I like and I think she knows it. I think she likes me too but she is downplaying it, playing a little hard to get. So fast forward, she posted a pic of her on FB... should I compliment her pic or just not at all... Thanks, Chips "ChipsnSalsa"..."here is the scoop"...Ha. Got it. Compliment her. When I see a great-looking guy (or a pic of a great-looking guy) and I know him, I'm the first to tell him what a eye piece he is. Why not!
snug.bunny Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 "ChipsnSalsa"..."here is the scoop"...Ha. Got it. Compliment her. When I see a great-looking guy (or a pic of a great-looking guy) and I know him, I'm the first to tell him what a eye piece he is. Why not! Me too. Well, I tend not to say it, but moreso show it by hopping on top of him (). By the way Cerridwen, you are looking quite lovely today! Oh crap! Did I just compliment you? Nooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!
cerridwen Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Me too. Well, I tend not to say it, but moreso show it by hopping on top of him (). By the way Cerridwen, you are looking quite lovely today! Oh crap! Did I just compliment you? Nooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!! In person, I express it by acting like a blithering idiot. I smile from ear to ear, laugh too loud and long at his jokes, and accidentally knock things over. But online? Words, baby, let them fly. Bunny, thanks for the compliment. Your hair looks super shiny but I'll go to my grave before I'll tell you that. Big tease.
Recommended Posts