Ok guys, does it matter to you what a woman's vag looks like??

[njruns]

Strange Question. The guy I'm "dating" and I did some online video chatting the other night. He couldn't see my face much in it and it was dark but he wanted me to play around (down there) for his viewing pleasure. I know some will say bad idea etc. However , the guy is overseas and no women around, and I enjoy having fun too and exciting him. Well I left a dress on and just exposed it a little and did my thing a bit an bammm he logs off midway!! Mid char he did say how awesome it was etc . But then I send him an email next day saying Booooo we got cut off. Did your Internet crash. He writes back just saying that it locked up on him etc. No mention of my sexual show for him(mind u at 430am! Bc of the time difference!) I sent 2 short emails about something else and no reply. Some times he can't get online over there (Afghanistan) but seems coincidental as he usually sends one email per day. So today, I sent an email asking what he thought about my little show and if it was ok bc I was tired and was dark etc.

 

Question is.... I can't help but think he didn't like the way my vag looked!! It's shaved and clean but the lips are bigger than average and self conscious about that. I mean it was hidden a lot by my hand and toy but... Do men care about how large one is?? Am I just being paranoid? Joule he have acknowledged my show at least once over wkend? Maybe he didn't like how I moved about? Very strange. Btw. He has seen my body pretty much in photos and expressed how he loves it a lot etc. But this is first time he really saw the downstairs area.

[brokendreamz]

I wouldn't worry about it - No straight man would ever be put off by a vagina!! Oh, and personally, I have a thing about lips - the bigger and fleshier the better!!

 

Hey - if you fancy putting on a show for me, I'll let you know if there's anything to work about Lol !!

[ShannonMI]

Strange Question. The guy I'm "dating" and I did some online video chatting the other night. He couldn't see my face much in it and it was dark but he wanted me to play around (down there) for his viewing pleasure. I know some will say bad idea etc. However , the guy is overseas and no women around, and I enjoy having fun too and exciting him. Well I left a dress on and just exposed it a little and did my thing a bit an bammm he logs off midway!! Mid char he did say how awesome it was etc . But then I send him an email next day saying Booooo we got cut off. Did your Internet crash. He writes back just saying that it locked up on him etc. No mention of my sexual show for him(mind u at 430am! Bc of the time difference!) I sent 2 short emails about something else and no reply. Some times he can't get online over there (Afghanistan) but seems coincidental as he usually sends one email per day. So today, I sent an email asking what he thought about my little show and if it was ok bc I was tired and was dark etc.

 

Question is.... I can't help but think he didn't like the way my vag looked!! It's shaved and clean but the lips are bigger than average and self conscious about that. I mean it was hidden a lot by my hand and toy but... Do men care about how large one is?? Am I just being paranoid? Joule he have acknowledged my show at least once over wkend? Maybe he didn't like how I moved about? Very strange. Btw. He has seen my body pretty much in photos and expressed how he loves it a lot etc. But this is first time he really saw the downstairs area.

Oh girl, why did you show him your beaver so soon? You haven't been talking to this guy for very long have you? I don't send crotch shots until I know someone really well. I just have a thing about it. I've actually only ever sent those types of shots to one guy in my life. Not because I don't have a pretty one, but because I'm just private about that sort of thing. I guess some girls are different.

 

He did say he thought it was awesome did he not? And then his internet froze. So I wouldn't worry about it. Unless you have HUGE beef curtains or sores or something, the guys will love it. And some men even like the big flopping lips like the other poster that replied to this thread. So don't worry too much.

[Twos Company]

You say 'dating', what do you mean exactly? have you gone out for long? I too wonder if you indeed have put him off in some way, not the physical, as I'm sure you're perfectly normal and only you think otherwise, but by doing the 'show' , you have somehow changed his perception of you.

Seems coincidental that his internet froze mid way...could he have been interrupted by someone maybe?

[SincereOnlineGuy]

 

Ok guys, does it matter to you what a woman's vag looks like??

 

 

Strange Question. The guy I'm "dating" and I did some online video chatting the other night. He couldn't see my face much in it and it was dark but he wanted me to play around (down there) for his viewing pleasure. I know some will say bad idea etc. However , the guy is overseas and no women around, and I enjoy having fun too and exciting him. Well I left a dress on and just exposed it a little and did my thing a bit an bammm he logs off midway!! Mid char he did say how awesome it was etc . But then I send him an email next day saying Booooo we got cut off. Did your Internet crash. He writes back just saying that it locked up on him etc. No mention of my sexual show for him(mind u at 430am! Bc of the time difference!) I sent 2 short emails about something else and no reply. Some times he can't get online over there (Afghanistan) but seems coincidental as he usually sends one email per day. So today, I sent an email asking what he thought about my little show and if it was ok bc I was tired and was dark etc.

 

Question is.... I can't help but think he didn't like the way my vag looked!! It's shaved and clean but the lips are bigger than average and self conscious about that. I mean it was hidden a lot by my hand and toy but... Do men care about how large one is?? Am I just being paranoid? Joule he have acknowledged my show at least once over wkend? Maybe he didn't like how I moved about? Very strange. Btw. He has seen my body pretty much in photos and expressed how he loves it a lot etc. But this is first time he really saw the downstairs area.

 

 

I'm torn between wanting to offer you a sincere and honest answer... and wanting to take your words here, as written, and starting a new thread titled something like:

 

"how women think"

 

 

I guess I can identify a thought process in your reasoning, yet I don't think your conclusion itself was 'reasonable'.

 

Personally, I want your "Vag" to have the uniqueness of a fingerprint. Now it may not ever surface in court cases or anything, and I'm sure I could make some reference or comparison to D.N.A. at this point, just for kicks, but I can't find the perfect words.

 

Bottom line: THERE IS NO CHANCE ON EARTH THAT A GUY OVERSEAS, WHEN GIVEN A CHANCE TO WATCH YOU PETTING YOUR BARE BUNNY, LOGGED-OFF as the result OF THE APPEARANCE OF YOUR BUNNY.

 

(eh, sometimes you DO have to 'YELL' on the internet)

 

Furthermore, in a situation such as that which you describe, it is YOUR BOLDNESS, and not as much your 'Vag', that is the centerpiece of the show.

 

Put those crazy fears to rest!

 

And P.S. Your 'lips' are probably awesome!!!

[O'Malley]

I'd say that his computer did freeze up or something random.

 

Has he brought up making plans to meet when he gets back? There's nothing wrong with flirting or going on Skype, but I'd save the raunchier stuff for when you're actually in person and can gauge his interest better.

[Feelsgoodman]

No straight man would ever be put off by a vagina!!

That's kind of like saying that no straight woman would be put off by a small penis

[carhill]

I was looking for a vagina monologue and stumbled in here

 

No worries OP. He's a guy. Your vag is his nirvana.

[kaylan]

I wouldn't worry about it - No straight man would ever be put off by a vagina!! Oh, and personally, I have a thing about lips - the bigger and fleshier the better!!

 

Hey - if you fancy putting on a show for me, I'll let you know if there's anything to work about Lol !!

^This. Guys are not put off by vag. I mean you cant tell much about vagina by just looking at it like a woman would look at a penis. A woman can tell if a penis wouldnt do it for her by looking at its size, but guys cant tell much about if a vag will do it for them until they have some fun inside it.

 

Also, for some guys, including myself, bigger lips and cl!t is a turn on like a bigger penis is for women.

 

It kinda makes me feel shes more of a woman since she has more of her lady parts lol

[Citizen Erased]

Maybe his gf walked in.

 

Most guys are happy to just be in the presence of a vagina, I doubt many would care what it looks like.

[ChessPieceFace]

It's not impossible, but still unlikely that he logged off and is now unresponsive due to the look of your vag (labia really.) Do you have enormously long flaps or something? I'm turned off by really long hangy ones. However, I find sizable "meaty" ones to be a big turn-on.

 

But I really just have to wonder why you'd even show someone that. But I also don't understand "dating" someone, as you put it, who is overseas. If someone isn't near me, I don't see the point. I may as well just stick with fantasy women in that case.

Edited December 12, 2011 by ChessPieceFace

[joystickd]

I worry about how it smell because I got to lick it before I stick it

[Feelsgoodman]

Most guys are happy to just be in the presence of a vagina, I doubt many would care what it looks like.

Not sure what sort of guys you hang out with, but that is definitely not the case. And ugly/loose vagina is as much of a turn off for men as a tiny penis is a turn off for women.

 

But speaking of the original poster, I doubt the look of her vagina had anything to do with the guy logging off. Most web cameras are too fuzzy and low resolution to provide a clear depiction of vaginal aesthetics...most likely there was some sort of an "emergency" that required an instant termination of OP's live feed transmission.

[Ninjainpajamas]

You've got to be kidding me.

 

This guy doesn't sound like someone who gets to see a lot of vagina, and If he's in Afghanistan I can only imagine how much sand is in the ones he does see If ever.

 

Nothing wrong with a vagina with big lips, and there's no way this would turn off a man to the degree he would just log off...that would be like a dog being picky over a bone when he hasn't eaten anything for months.

 

The guy already sounds like a douche though, so be careful...If anything the wife or gf dropped in and how he's worried about getting caught.

 

If it's exciting for you then whatever, but be careful what you send this guy...try to at least leave your face out of it, you don't know who he is or what kind of person he is in real life.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Not sure what sort of guys you hang out with, but that is definitely not the case. And ugly/loose vagina is as much of a turn off for men as a tiny penis is a turn off for women.

 

 

 

 

ROFL - this guy is clueless.

 

 

Firstly, you can't even SEE the vagina.

 

 

Secondly, there is only one way to differentiate between vaginas.

 

(well, technically, perhaps there are two ways... but I've yet to meet a soul who has traveled through more than one in his/her entirety)

 

 

Not to mention that, unlike with penis size, the look of a woman's naughty bits is all subjective.

[Fondue]

Similar to women having preferences on size/shape/cut-uncut/etc., men too, have preference on vulvas.

 

Not going to beat around the bush here, but yes, many of us do find some female nether regions to be less attractive than others.

[ascendotum]

Bottom line: THERE IS NO CHANCE ON EARTH THAT A GUY OVERSEAS, WHEN GIVEN A CHANCE TO WATCH YOU PETTING YOUR BARE BUNNY, LOGGED-OFF as the result OF THE APPEARANCE OF YOUR BUNNY.

Totally! Labia are like breasts for guys. Guys have different preferences but they'll all still great. I'm another guy who loves bigger lips.

 

Maybe his gf walked in.

Yep. quite possible. You have a funny definition of dating, but in regards to your issue here, seriously dont worry about it, but just be a little weary who who flash your gash to on the www, your session could end up doing the rounds on 'amateur porn' sites.

[missed_theboat]

ROFL - this guy is clueless.

 

 

Firstly, you can't even SEE the vagina.

 

 

Secondly, there is only one way to differentiate between vaginas.

 

(well, technically, perhaps there are two ways... but I've yet to meet a soul who has traveled through more than one in his/her entirety)

 

 

Not to mention that, unlike with penis size, the look of a woman's naughty bits is all subjective.

 

 

So true about not being able to see the vagina. It's the vulva that people are usually looking at, unless a woman's labia are so spread apart and/or not there that the vagina is actually visible without having to delve in. And a woman's vulva lips being big has nothing to do with the vagina being loose or big.

 

What do you mean about differentiating between vaginas?

[SincereOnlineGuy]

 

What do you mean about differentiating between vaginas?

 

 

 

Well, um, the guy wrote of "loose" vaginas.

 

 

So the main way one would compare (differentiate) one to the other, is during intercourse with more than one person. (and no, not at the same exact moment)

 

OR, technically, most of us traveled through one at some point, but nobody ever travels through two, in order to compare.

 

And as "loose" is a relative term... well, y'know

[missed_theboat]

Well, um, the guy wrote of "loose" vaginas.

 

 

So the main way one would compare (differentiate) one to the other, is during intercourse with more than one person. (and no, not at the same exact moment)

 

OR, technically, most of us traveled through one at some point, but nobody ever travels through two, in order to compare.

 

And as "loose" is a relative term... well, y'know

 

Ah yes, birth! That totally slipped my mind for a brief second. *slaps forehead*

 

Yeah--true. It depends upon the man, his own penis size, what feels good to him, etc.

[snug.bunny]

I didn't realize people were Skyping their cooters these days...

 

So, maybe the "act of boldness", shocked him into a state of frenzy he fell off his chair, knocked out the internet connection in the process. That, or someone walked in....

 

Let's just hope ***fingers crossed*** your private parts don't end up on the Internet somewhere.

[dasein]

As long as your vag doesn't look like a penis, you are probably in the clear. I don't like giant, droopy vulva myself, but a woman being kind enough to do that kind of show over the net would compensate for any variance between my preference and what she was showing.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

I didn't realize people were Skyping their cooters these days...

 

 

 

 

"These days" ??? (As opposed to when? 1974???)

 

 

 

LOL

[ChessPieceFace]

Oh and I'd just like to add that I'll be happy to objectively rate the attractiveness of the vag of any woman that would like to send pics.

[njruns]

haha. Thanks for the replies. Thing is, Ok, so he was seemingly interested the day before our online video chat with the vag lol. He wrote me a very nice email, sounding sincere, saying he can't wait to see me when he gets back etc. We have said that we would definitely see each other when he gets back. MOst of the over 500 emails I have from this guy are not sexual. Mostly asking about my family, hobbies etc. It then developed into honest sexual questions and preferences etc and then... being he is in Afghanistan, I played with him a bit and turned him on.

 

Once before, I did a little "show" for him (not nude) and he said how hot it was etc... the next day he mentioned it again etc. Now, on Friday, he quickly logs off and next day says his computer froze up. Another girl could not have walked in (as posters have said )Bc there are no women there (well that I am aware of!) Only thing I thought of is that his roommates were there or he got distracted with another online sex chat! Whole time I was doing the "show" he was not very responsive online, as he has been in past. Only said a few things...

 

Now... he is very busy over there (attacks, war zone) and so... I'm not sure what to make of this. This seems weird that right after our little video chat, I have not heard from him in days, and I even emailed to ask what he thought of the video chat. No response. His best friend put something on his wall asking if he got her email since he didnt reply and he said his email was down. But he could still contact me over facebook, which he has not.

 

Other question... ok, so he has said SEVERAL times that he likes that i'm all around awesome and naughty with him and has provoked me to do certain things like this etc... he loves it. Is there any way that suddenly he is turned OFF by my naughty behavior, like it was too much or showed I was too easy ? He loved this before and so I wonder why his mind would change? Also, I'd liketo make it clear that he probably could not see my bare cooch, since the hand was in the way and computer is grainy and it was kinda dark! I never exposed it without my hand there.

 

So... guy has suddenly backed off day after this sexual chat. ONe could say that's all he wanted but... he has still yet to see me in person, which he said day before he cant wait to see me in person... so why would he back off now???? Is he in a funk maybe over there, just doesnt wanna talk to anyone or has another girl or just doesnt like me now?