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Ladies: Do long messages deter you?


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I'm the same way in terms of being expressive and a conversationalist typically right off the bat.

 

However, I have noticed that most people do not work that way...and may even find it intimidating or overwhelming. Many people need time and more rapport in order to start spilling their deepest thoughts and share their ideas, some people kinda take that as a form of intimacy or progress so to speak, it's like almost a first kiss and if they're not ready for it, it kinda scares them off being too overwhelming.

 

However I'm a pretty picky guy and I'm generally looking for someone with a better than average, more exuberant personality yet without being over-the-top. I like being with women that are memorable and can make an good impressions with their confidence, or energy...which Is why a pretty face with no personality/smarts, or a extremely introverted person isn't what I find interesting or compelling.

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