SkyEmtRN Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Well it's official. Ex gf made me feel like dirt saying how I treated her badly in relationship. All she wanted was to spend time and she always accommodated ways to spend time with me. But I just wouldn't. Why? I don't know I was so hot headed into doing school work. There was a time where I did treat her badly but I woke up and realized what I was doing. I tried to correct my mistakes but I took to long. Now I lost the girl I love so much. I took her for granted and now some other guy probably scooped in and now my chances of reconciliation are gone. Damn it....I want to go back in time to fix my ways and fix my bad self. But losing her I realize my mistakes and wish I can show her my changes. I know nc is what I have to do.
Art_Critic Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Sky.. this is what you would call a learning experience.. You have learned from your mistakes.. Now take what you learned, correct what you can and let the new future girl in your life be the person who gains from your past learning experience.. That is exactly what dating is.. Your next relationship will be better from what you have learned.. Good Luck....
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 12, 2011 Author Posted December 12, 2011 Sky.. this is what you would call a learning experience.. You have learned from your mistakes.. Now take what you learned, correct what you can and let the new future girl in your life be the person who gains from your past learning experience.. That is exactly what dating is.. Your next relationship will be better from what you have learned.. Good Luck.... Yea thank you. I just wish I could have a restart with her and make things right. Ya know... I want one last chance....
foolishlover Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 In all honesty, if you think and have the want to change to make the relationship work, i think you should let her know. Whether or not she wants to give it a second go is her choice. At least you made your intentions clear I had a similar situation with my partner...He didnt pay any attention to me, preferred to spend time with other people and not spend time with me and generally took me for granted. I just couldnt be in such a relationship and it crushed me when he said he wasnt willing to change. I took it as a sign of him falling out of love. (mind you, he wasnt like that when we first met...he was everything i wished for plus more!) But if he came back to me and said he will change, i will definitely try again. In essence, if you want to change, let her know and then she can decide. good luck
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 12, 2011 Author Posted December 12, 2011 In all honesty, if you think and have the want to change to make the relationship work, i think you should let her know. Whether or not she wants to give it a second go is her choice. At least you made your intentions clear I had a similar situation with my partner...He didnt pay any attention to me, preferred to spend time with other people and not spend time with me and generally took me for granted. I just couldnt be in such a relationship and it crushed me when he said he wasnt willing to change. I took it as a sign of him falling out of love. (mind you, he wasnt like that when we first met...he was everything i wished for plus more!) But if he came back to me and said he will change, i will definitely try again. In essence, if you want to change, let her know and then she can decide. good luck Oh trust me I did everything and said everything to her to show her that I was changing. I even sent her a picture of me with a months progress of hitting the gym. She said it was a nice picture but....wasan't enough to get her back. I started NC and I think its going to stay that way. Its been 2 months since bu and it looks like she has found a replacement. I hope she is just going through Gigs
chados Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Oh trust me I did everything and said everything to her to show her that I was changing. I even sent her a picture of me with a months progress of hitting the gym. She said it was a nice picture but....wasan't enough to get her back. I started NC and I think its going to stay that way. Its been 2 months since bu and it looks like she has found a replacement. I hope she is just going through Gigs never tell someone you love that you will change, this will only come out as youre changing because she told you to. and dont send her pictures. this is the exact same thing. she knows youre desperate. youve put a lot of pressure on her. remove that now if you want her back. this is the number one mistake everyone does. its called begging, even if your not asking her to take you back. everything youve done will ask her that for you.
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 12, 2011 Author Posted December 12, 2011 never tell someone you love that you will change, this will only come out as youre changing because she told you to. and dont send her pictures. this is the exact same thing. she knows youre desperate. youve put a lot of pressure on her. remove that now if you want her back. this is the number one mistake everyone does. its called begging, even if your not asking her to take you back. everything youve done will ask her that for you. Yea that was a while ago in the break up. I'm starting to fix myself up slowly and slowly. Read my newest post!
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