It has been over 1 and a half mth since she left me but it is getting better..

[Jareddms]

I guess most people here know my story, my fiance of almost 3 years decided she wanted to be 'wild' and have fun and enjoy life and ever since it has been hard for me. I got my things (finally) out of the house 2 weeks ago and last week work sent me to one of our client site in mexico, to tell you the truth I did not want to go but now i am so glad I did, i met so many nice people that it changed my perspective a little on her. Now I realized there are many nice sweet beautiful people out there just waiting to be discovered. Your significant other is not the only one who would do nice things for you, trust me on that. Now I am learning to speak spanish and hopefully I will go back there and be able to understand it a little better

 

Folks take time out for you and start doing things for you and if you can go on a nice vacation somewhere and just relax, mine was not a vacation but at least I was not thinking of her all the time.

 

Now that I am back I do not feel the urge to call her or to go over there where she lives I am glad she is not contacting me because i think it will just hurt me more.

[LostWithoutYou]

Jareddms,

 

glad that you're doing better...as for me I'm in the process of letting my ex g/f go...I too was in a relationship for 3 years and she decided she wanted time to herself...I battled each day to come to reality that she's no longer here with me and it hurts. will I ever find happiness again, at this point, I don't know what to think and what to do, I wish I have the confident and courage to get out and let my mind go but its harder said than done....well, keep it up and best of luck to you!

[Jareddms]

My friend, you will have the confidence that old cliche 'time heals everything' is so true, but if you start concentrating on yourself and discover you and start doing things for you, it will make it much easier. I once saw this line that said 'if you have found your soulmate, chances are you have been to a place where you have found yourself' if you can be happy with you and be confident in yourself, then no one can take that away from you. Right now it does seem like the world is coming to an end, that is how i felt over a mth ago , i even wanted to hurt myself, but now it is getting easier as each day go by. You will find that is the same for you too, just start doing things you never did before, new things to fill the void left by her.

 

Originally posted by LostWithoutYou

Jareddms,

 

glad that you're doing better...as for me I'm in the process of letting my ex g/f go...I too was in a relationship for 3 years and she decided she wanted time to herself...I battled each day to come to reality that she's no longer here with me and it hurts. will I ever find happiness again, at this point, I don't know what to think and what to do, I wish I have the confident and courage to get out and let my mind go but its harder said than done....well, keep it up and best of luck to you!