pineapples Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 My ex BF (he is in his 30s) keeps flirting with me constantly. We broke up a few months ago after a 2 year relationship due to his commitment issues, plus he had some sort of emotional affair with another woman (although he would not agree with this statement). The main thing is that my feelings were hurt and I broke up with him, but the reason was that he was going elsewhere for certain things... First we did NC, however as we work at same building, we did see each other occasionally, but I made sure not to talk to him except saying hi. Basically I managed NC for about 4 months, before returning one of his calls and meeting him for coffee. Eventually I agreed to be friends with him, because he was literally begging me several times (even crying) not to cut him out of my life completely. So I agreed. By this time I have already moved on emotionally, but of course feelings do come back sometimes and it is not easy. Ever since we started this being friends thing, he keeps flirting with me, sending me sexual messages, touching me gently, talking about us a couple etc. It is really annoying. I have told him that I am not comfortable with all this a few times, but he did not seem to get it. A few days ago once again he said something and I just freaked out... I told him he was extremely annoying and all this is making me resent him even more. Now he will not return my calls or texts, and obviously I do feel bad now... After all I do care about him, but I still think he is acting like a spoiled child. My question is, am I being right in asking him to stop flirting? And why does he do this? Guys, do you regularly flirt with your female friends?? On side note, we are talking about a very good looking womanizer, who has told me (when we broke up) that he has never promised me any sort of commitment anyway. So it is not like he wants to be with me, I am pretty sure he doesn't. thanks
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