Million.to.1 Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 So, I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months 2 weeks ago. I know it was "only" 6 months, but it was an intense relationship with alot of time spent together. It's been 1 week N/C. I am up and down, but over all, I think I am coping pretty well. The last relationship I had before my most recent Ex was over a year ago while I was over seas in South east Asia. I met another traveler and we spent 1 month traveling together while our routes were the same... It was great and we got on really well.. apart from the obvious hick-ups of spending 24/7 traveling with each other and getting to know each other at the same time. But over all it was great. Best sex I've ever had and we made each other laugh so much. Perfect holiday romance. Anyway.. we stayed in touch... Skype from time to time and on Facebook. He lives on the other side of the world. Literally. He knew when i met my last boyfriend and when we broke up recently I told him too. Totally unexpected, but over the weekend he told me that he thinks about me all the time and that we should be together. That we could live here and there and have endless summers. That i should come and visit him next summer (it winter there ATM) and that we will never find other people that compare to what we shared. He even asked if we should get married here or there. Wo. I am so confused in how to take this. Still in a mess over my recent break-up and not really in the right head space to deal with it. On one hand.. I just want to go.. take a risk.. run away from my pain here. On the other hand it is not very practical financially as I am too old to get a working visa for his country, and even though i have the money to go, I am scared it could all be a waste if it didn't work out, and i would end up back here with double the heart break. I don't know whether he is taking advantage of the fact that i am vulnerable right now or if he has in fact spent the last year thinking about me and how great it was, and now he has the opportunity to speak up, he has. Because we never really had a relationship, it's not really like an Ex coming back. But kinda is. We HAD to go our separate ways. Some advise on how to think this through and handle it would be appreciated.
leoc1973 Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Wait who is "He" the first or the second guy? which one wants you back? The traveler or the one who you had great sex with? And how do you feel about both of them? Please clarify a little!
sugarmomma Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Just go back and re-read the original post you made about this situation. That should give you all the answers you need.
Author Million.to.1 Posted December 12, 2011 Author Posted December 12, 2011 Sorry.. Just to clarify.. My most recent break-up was with a kiwi boy just over 2 weeks ago. The traveler is from Canada and we haven't seen each other in a year, but stayed in touch. He knew that i was in a relationship for the last six months and that it has just ended. He is the one i had amazing sex with, and he is the one that is saying "lets be together" "we can live between here and there" etc... Sugarmomma... I don't understand what you mean by read the original post. Can you explain please?
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