dude1986 Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 hi guys wanted to know ..what to do in short i was with a girl 3 years together living ..i suported her 1 year and half about financial issues ..i mean i paid the rent and everything .she use to buy things from super market and cook..but then she got a job and our money was together ..she is libra she was not happy that other girls look at me and i write to them sweetheart ..and bla bla on facebook..then things became ugly and we use to had fights..she 2 times packed her stuff and said she is going ..once we became very angry and there was verbal abuse from both sides but evrything became ok ..then i went to home to other country and she said me send me 100 $ because i will have problem ..i could not send her and we had a fight again on facebook she said she is tired of being a house wife and cooking ..she feels happy alone and going to disco ..i said ok then i will also live alone ..she said do not run like this ..i got angry ..but from next day she started going with different boys ..i thought it was a simple fight never thought she will take it so serious ..but i came after 1 month it was first time in 3 years i left her alone ..when i even came i gave her my flat and everything in the flat for her..and try to fight for our love xaxax for 4 months but she said she has found someone rich and wll marry him .. last time i talked her i asked can we try again slowly slowly ..she said we will be never be together ..i have been with her 3 years ..she really loved me but how can a person become so cold //i can not understand ..love to have your advice:)
cerridwen Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 (edited) What a rocky relationship. Now that it's over, there's no reason to find the answer to "why is she so cold?" It's done. Behind you. Disengage from this drama and let your heartache roar until it hits a place of healing. Then imagine someone whose values and commitment are in alignment with yours. Imagine having a new life with someone just as invested as you. It's completely possible if you go for it. But you have to start the healing process first. That includes ceasing to ponder these unknowable things. People have their issues, their histories, their faults, some of which we'll fail to grasp. It's wasted energy to ruminate (though completely understandable). Read some of the guides to No Contact. They can help you begin. Edited December 11, 2011 by cerridwen
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