SJC2008 Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Have you ever been attracted to someone where he or she may be cute but you were just drawn to them so much if you put that person next to a model you would still be more attracted to him or her? I have twice in my life. Now I know it is possible for you to be attracted to someone and them not to you but, if is that "I don't know why" attraction which is probably phermones does it mean they are attracted to you like that or does it work like regular attracton? Good question ha? Debate.
somedude81 Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Have you ever been attracted to someone where he or she may be cute but you were just drawn to them so much if you put that person next to a model you would still be more attracted to him or her? I have twice in my life. I felt this way for the most recent girl I had a thing for. I would easily choose her over a more attractive woman. I just liked her personality so much, and she was pretty enough already. Now I know it is possible for you to be attracted to someone and them not to you but, if is that "I don't know why" attraction which is probably phermones does it mean they are attracted to you like that or does it work like regular attracton? Good question ha? Debate. Forty-two.
cerridwen Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Have you ever been attracted to someone where he or she may be cute but you were just drawn to them so much if you put that person next to a model you would still be more attracted to him or her? Definitely!More than once. Intelligence, compassion, open-mindedness, inner strength are mighty turn-ons.
carhill Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 At my age, it's easier to perceive 'pheromonal' attraction since we're all getting to be old farts. Myself, assessing my own attraction, as it's so rare, I notice classic physical symptoms which have nothing to do with visual appearance. It can be voice (sound), smell, or just 'presence'. When I sense attraction in someone else, I get this 'uncomfortable' feeling but don't experience any physical symptoms myself. It's more of an empathic response, but on a different level from a base physical response. I've been attracted to people who are decidedly not 'cute' and not for quantifiable reasons like a loving nature or great personality. One of those mysteries of nature I guess. I'm drawing on a few data points over the last couple months to extrapolate from past experience that I didn't yet have the life experience to fully understand my own psychology about such matters. It's entirely possible, and often likely, and has been my experience in life more often than not that one can be attracted to another's pheromones but without the experience being mutual. You might find, if not already conversant, reading about major histocompatibility complex in the realm of human mating to be of interest. The body is a fascinating machine.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 I'm confused by the question(s). But have I ever been so attracted to someone that I could blot out some top model the answer is absolutely. But I never got close enough to be affected by their pheromones--or maybe so only after the infatuation was already in major bloom. I found those times--which were never short-lived and went on for a long time because I worked around them--to be wonderful times of one-sided love-sickness that were just fine for what they were.
OnyxSnowfall Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Absolutely... (My ex had the best [natural] aroma ever... and even though he wasn't what others considered "physically aesthetic", he's still the most attractive and sexiest man to me, hands down, heh... he rocked my mind and body soooo well too ...).
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