Glove_slap Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 I'm almost reaching a year with NC. She left me for another guy. I miss her dearly. She has made no effort to contact me. I'd love to tell my story but at this point it feels somewhat irrelevant....
0hpenelope Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Do you think you'll feel a major setback if you do break NC? If you're cool about things now, even though hearing from her again will hurt but you can brush it off much better because you've healed yourself, focused on you, and moved on as far as you're able to from the days when you were desperate for her, then why not? If you think/are afraid that you'll just go back to square one (yes this is possible even after a year of NC), then it's probably best to pass on this for now. Sit out the feeling. The winter season's notorious for nostalgia.
foolishlover Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 yea, like they say, NC is for your own personal healing and to help you move on. It seems you still have feelings for your ex and breaking NC will only push you back and make you feel worse. If you are happy, moved on and found a new normal, then contacting i would think shouldnt be a problem. But in all honesty, ask yourself what you want to achieve out of it. Let yourself heal.
Zabs Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Glove, perhaps it could be sondiered...but seeing the reason you split...I would not recommend it. If she were to initiate contact...assuming it wasn't crumbs..then perhaps so..but that hasn't happened.. what do your guts tell you jun? Much love Zabs xx
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