IluvAlex33 Posted May 29, 2004 Posted May 29, 2004 Recently my boyfriend told me we needed a break, it's very unusual and akward it's not like him. WE have a perfect relationship. The reason he said he wanted a break is that we argue too much,but the thing is we don't. If we do its either to be silly or some reason like that. But when we do get mad it doesn't last long only about 10 min. Honestly, i think it is because he is going to a different high school.We've talked about this for the 7 months we have been going out, and that we would not break up because of high school. Please help me!I need to know what to say to get him back! I LOVE HIM! thanx, I luv Alex 33
bluechocolate Posted May 29, 2004 Posted May 29, 2004 Please help me!I need to know what to say to get him back! Do you honestly think that there are words that you can use to accomplish this? If that was the case this forum wouldn't exist. There is nothing you can say to get him back. You can talk about why he wants a break and you can try & understand what he means about the two of arguing too much. But at the end of the day it is his decision to make.
ziggue Posted May 31, 2004 Posted May 31, 2004 My Ex said this to me like a year ago. I tried everything to change his mind. It was even worse for me because I knew that he wasn't sure whether he was going to his Ex or not. . There is nothing you can do. Once they have made up their mind that's it. Learnt that the hard way. He ended up leaving me and going back to the bitch. . . . Try everything you can to get him back. If that doesn't work. Then you are just gonna have to eccept it. It will be hard at first. . Trust me I have been there. I got over it in the end. . There maybe a light at the end of the tunnel. Didn't believe that at all till I met my current boyfriend who I am with right now. . Even have other good things in my life happen to me as well as him too. . . Hopefully things will work out for you.
pitprincess Posted May 31, 2004 Posted May 31, 2004 If he is going to leave your not going to do anything but cause more arugments with trying to get him back.. Tell him you respect his wishes and give him some space.. If he loves you.. he will be right back to you :) Good Luck to you
Triscuit Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 *sigh* I know you, but you can't guess who I am *hides* The reason he was so uncomfortable in the relationship is because you smothered him so much! You wouldn't let him go anywhere with his friends- male or female- you 'hired' two of your friends to watch him at the school dance when you couldn't be there, you got jealous at the drop of a hat, and you always suspected ME of "secretly dating" him or something. I sware, you would go for days without talking to me simply because I went somewhere with him over the weekend. Not even in a romantic way! I don't mess with people when they're dating someone else. You would know that. And then, you tell him that you're dating a new guy... "with abs". Trying to make him jealous? I think not! And your most recent escapade- calling him a "fat mother f'er". Why are you so stuck on trying to get back at him, or something? Now, you're going out with a guy, who I admit, is one of the sweetest guys I know. Andrew. But it seems a little odd to everyone.. not trying to break ya'll up, but it is a bit... weird. I'm also still confused as to why you showed up at the game, when we weren't even playing against your school. You told everyone you were working the concessions, but I suspected an alterior motive. Alex wasn't there, however. And I never did see you actually working like you said you were. We are all wondering if you will treat Andrew the way you did Alex. Break-ups are a part of life, honey. They happen to everyone, and only make you stronger. Don't dwell on it so long. ~.^
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