lightx Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 OK so i made a post in the break up section too what she said here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t309962/ Update: Today she finally for the first time stopped running and hiding like a coward and showed herself at work. Today at work as I was coming out of my department ( I work in the kitchen and she in Housekeeping....btw ) I was delivering some food to a resident hall and there she was outside of the door cleaning a bathroom. Normally she would turn her back on me. So when she heard me coming her way i saw through the crack of the door that she sped u turned around roaming through her things like she was Actually working when she was stalling as if she wanted me to say something. She didn't give me eye contact and I stopped for a brief second and looked at her and still nothing. So i continued on with my work and just ignored her because I figured she was still being Immature. Then later through out the day I noticed that she was outside of the dining hall door as I was in the dining room with other girls just talking and working and she was kinda out there watching, but not to hard or trying not to get caught..... SO the whole entire day I been thinking about her thinking maybe I should've spoken to her or at least said hi... As Much as this No contact thing has been going on its killing me and I miss her and want to talk to her... Its just that during the break up she stated that we might as well not talk to each other and if we see each other in the hall we might ignore each other as well. Then says the ball is in my court if I wanna talk to her or do anything together to come up to her since she did the most damage in the relationship.... What should I do guys !?!?! I'm thinking about confronting her tomorrow and asking her to take a walk with me and talk about this, but what do you suggest I do or say in the least ? The NC has been going on for A month and a week now.
Million.to.1 Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 it's hardly N/C if you see each other at work all the time. N/C is not about just ignoring the other person. N/C is about creating a space for yourself to do what you need to heal and move on. Your relationship sounded like a game to her. She clearly has alot of growing up to do and you are probably far better off without her. Stop playing her games. Be polite at work and ignore any immature behavior.
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