I want him back..

[flinty182]

I know this is a very long story, but I hope someone can help me out.

 

My (now ex) boyfriend of two months broke up with me a little over two weeks ago and I miss him. A lot. He hasn't really giving me a good reason why. His whole story just didn't make any sense. At first he told me he wanted to slow things down, then he's telling me he wants to see me more often and an hour later, we're broken up.. He then told me he didn't have that special feeling for me any more. I refuse to believe that, because everything was so perfect the weekend before we broke up.

 

Okay so, we haven't seen each other since the break up. Well, we did, we passed each other in the hall way in school, but we didn't say anything. This was four days after the break up and he looked very depressed. I've never seen someone like that and it broke my heart. It made me believe that maybe he has a harder time dealing with it than I do. I'm not so sure about that any more though.

He texted me a couple hours later apologising that he didn't say anything that day and asked me how I was doing. I was very surprised that he contacted me and didn't know how to respond so I waited a couple hours before texting him back. He sent me another text message, but I didn't text back after that.

 

A couple days later I had posted a not very nice status on facebook directed to him. I know this was VERY stupid and deleted it not even a minute later. He's usually never on facebook so I didn't worry. Later that day I got a text message from him asking if my status was about him. I didn't want to lie so I called him and explained everything. I also told him that it's stupid that we broke up. Things went way too fast in the beginning of our relationship and that ruined things, but I also think we broke up too fast and that I believe that we can make things work again. We talked for an hour and I didn't speak to him for a week after that.

 

On Wednesday I sent him a text asking to hang out later this week. He came of very rude and didn't seem too interested so I didn't feel like texting back and left my phone at home before I went out. When I got back, one hour later, there was another text message from him. He asked me when I had time to meet up with him and if next week would be an option if I wasn't available this week. I was well, blown away, because now it did seem as if he wants to hang out. I told him I was available on Sunday and didn't respond to his last text message of that day.

 

Since we're hanging out tomorrow, I asked for details a couple hours ago. He was acting very rude again and didn't seem to care. This made me angry and I really wanted to ask what's wrong, but I didn't want to get into a fight or pay attention to it and just see what happens tomorrow.

 

I'm still very confused and I really want to know if there's a possibility of us getting back together.

 

Oh and, I have no idea what tomorrow's going to bring, but we already know we're going to the movies next weekend.. We used to double date with two friends of ours and the girl asked him to double date again. She did this not even a week after our break up and I had no idea. It didn't seem like he was super excited, but he did agree to come..

 

Can anyone help me? I'm I really that stupid for getting my hopes up?

 

Also, I know that I've done some things wrong during our time together and I would never make the same mistakes again. The mistakes we made aren't big things, by the way. We argued or really small, stupid things and made up the same day. Any way, like I said; I know what I did wrong. Is it okay to talk to him about it tomorrow or should I wait a little longer and see where this is going?

Edited December 10, 2011 by flinty182

[BoredAgain]

Take a step back for a second and ask yourself this question: If your relationship barely lasted two months, how much longer will it last if you get back together?

 

You sound very young, and I know that break-ups at that age suck. The good news is that you'll also heal from it pretty quickly. You seem to be playing mind games, and you're just creating drama. Ignore him. Go hang out with friends, and meet new people.

 

You'll be fine.

[Fufu]

Break Ups never make sense to anyone of us when we just gotten the news from our exes.

 

I was with my ex for 3 years, nearly got engaged (Bought engagement rings) and he broke up with me. I don't get it too, but it is not a concern anymore.

 

He broke up with me and this is a fact and reality check.

 

 

You guys only dated for 2 months and he broke up with you. Take this as a blessing in disguise, you don't deserve this kind of relationship