ThaWholigan Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 I saw this thread and had a long overdue need to vent. I have acquired the knowledge and I use it for dark purposes lol. Its fun to be the bad guy for once in my life instead of being the doormat or the person that only heard all a woman's problems:lmao: It is common for that to happen. I am lucky because I have never had that kind of mindset when it comes to women. I don't allow them to walk on me. I don't mind being their friend, but I don't act like a date when I am not getting the goodies . I guess that is why people say I am not emotional, it is just I have greater control. I have had to develop that.
joystickd Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 It is common for that to happen. I am lucky because I have never had that kind of mindset when it comes to women. I don't allow them to walk on me. I don't mind being their friend, but I don't act like a date when I am not getting the goodies . I guess that is why people say I am not emotional, it is just I have greater control. I have had to develop that. Now I do the walking on them. Right now there is someone I don't like her but she like me. I will tell her I am interested just to have sex with her a few times. I have been done wrong for so long that part of me is now a cold blooded mother f**ker.
ThaWholigan Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Now I do the walking on them. Right now there is someone I don't like her but she like me. I will tell her I am interested just to have sex with her a few times. I have been done wrong for so long that part of me is now a cold blooded mother f**ker. I wouldn't do that. Personally, I have a code of honor and I like to do things what I feel is the right way, and I don't think I can stray from it. That doesn't make me rigid, just means I have a foundational set of boundaries that nobody can cross. So I don't allow myself to be stepped on, I don't have to step on anybody else unless they push it too far, and honestly I haven't had any problems. I let one girl in, but I chalked that up to my own naivety and to be fair, she told me straight up "look, I'm not good for you, I'm bad"
joystickd Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 I wouldn't do that. Personally, I have a code of honor and I like to do things what I feel is the right way, and I don't think I can stray from it. That doesn't make me rigid, just means I have a foundational set of boundaries that nobody can cross. So I don't allow myself to be stepped on, I don't have to step on anybody else unless they push it too far, and honestly I haven't had any problems. I let one girl in, but I chalked that up to my own naivety and to be fair, she told me straight up "look, I'm not good for you, I'm bad" Why have some type of honor when it comes to interacting with women? A lot of them don't. Sometimes we have to be the dose of karma they need.
Cypress25 Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 OK joystickd, we get it. You hate women and you will make them all pay. Never mind the fact that you're taking it out on innocent women who have never done anything to you. If it makes you feel better to get revenge on the women who hurt you in the past by hurting new women, go for it. Doesn't make any sense, but nothing you say makes any sense, so who cares.
ThaWholigan Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Why have some type of honor when it comes to interacting with women? A lot of them don't. Sometimes we have to be the dose of karma they need. I have honor interacting with everyone. When you understand what women respond to and whether their intentions matches yours, you will respond accordingly. That's the way I feel about that anyway. I don't chalk it up to women's manipulation (I've never been manipulated on the kind of scale I've seen on here). I chalk it up to me not being that savvy when it comes to women.
joystickd Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 OK joystickd, we get it. You hate women and you will make them all pay. Never mind the fact that you're taking it out on innocent women who have never done anything to you. If it makes you feel better to get revenge on the women who hurt you in the past by hurting new women, go for it. Doesn't make any sense, but nothing you say makes any sense, so who cares. I don't hate women. I hate their actions. It seems that way because the way I vented on here. I am in no way a misogynist. I have been done wrong and took action to prevent it from happening again. The sad thing is when I became this way women actually liked me. Honestly I could care less if what I say doesn't make sense because I release a lot of frustration by posting my allover the place postings. You are probably a manipulative woman anyway so shut it.
ThaWholigan Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 I don't hate women. I hate their actions. It seems that way because the way I vented on here. I am in no way a misogynist. I have been done wrong and took action to prevent it from happening again. The sad thing is when I became this way women actually liked me. Honestly I could care less if what I say doesn't make sense because I release a lot of frustration by posting my allover the place postings. You are probably a manipulative woman anyway so shut it. Understandable but still one should still try to understand a woman's actions without being upset about them. But I get where you're coming from, your previous naivety allowed them to take the piss with you, and now you're exercising your right to seek revenge. That revenge will not really get you anywhere, and after a while it won't feel good....
joystickd Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Understandable but still one should still try to understand a woman's actions without being upset about them. But I get where you're coming from, your previous naivety allowed them to take the piss with you, and now you're exercising your right to seek revenge. That revenge will not really get you anywhere, and after a while it won't feel good.... That feeling you are talking about will never compare to what I have felt back then.
monkey00 Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 This video interviewing students on a college campus says enough: So the answer is...no, they can't be friends. http://thehairpin.com/2011/12/ask-a-utah-college-student-can-men-and-women-be-friends
Seneca Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 That feeling you are talking about will never compare to what I have felt back then. Man, I'm sorry you got hurt. That sucks. Really does. I don't know what happened to you, but it must've been really bad.
thatone Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 OK joystickd, we get it. You hate women and you will make them all pay. Never mind the fact that you're taking it out on innocent women who have never done anything to you. If it makes you feel better to get revenge on the women who hurt you in the past by hurting new women, go for it. Doesn't make any sense, but nothing you say makes any sense, so who cares. there are no innocent women, nor are there innocent men.
Oxy Moronovich Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 You know what irritates me, when a woman gets ticked off at a guy that doesn't want to be her friend, after she's just told him she doesn't see him in that way, and he looses touch. Then she says, "All he wanted to do was get in my pants" Talk about audacity. Yeah, you gotta stop listening to women when they complain.
carhill Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 Yeah, you gotta stop listening to women when they complain. As a middle ground on the 'benefit of the doubt' thing, I proactively show empathy and compassion one time, and look to see if it reciprocated. If other, erased. I know there's a Hoover on the line. Now, having vast life experience with Hoovers, I know they can fake it for awhile, so I just wait for that particular canary to gasp its last breath, then move on without discussion. IOW, as long as they're meeting my needs and wants too, relative to being 'friends', I remain engaged. However, when that ends, I don't waffle. Hole in the water.
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