wander1991 Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 I met this girl in my class like 2 weeks ago because she was in my group assignment. We talked a bit in RL and online. After our assignment( and class) I hung out with her and her friend for like an hour, but I forgot to ask her for her number before leaving. She just went online today and then I decided to ask her there since that was the only way I could contact her, but after I did she went offline. I guess I shouldn't have asked her that fast, but it was killing me this entire time. Any input would be appreciated, thanks.
Jessica45 Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 No, I don't think you blew it. I think she probably went offline before getting your message. I'd give it another try. I don't think you are rushing things by asking her out.
Author wander1991 Posted December 11, 2011 Author Posted December 11, 2011 I'll try chatting with her the next time she goes online and maybe ask her to hangout after exams are over.
Author wander1991 Posted December 12, 2011 Author Posted December 12, 2011 No, I don't think you blew it. I think she probably went offline before getting your message. I'd give it another try. I don't think you are rushing things by asking her out. Would you suggest anything else if she did actually log off on purpose and how I should approach it?
Jessica45 Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 If she logged off on purpose because you asked her out, then you can assume she's not interested. I would let it go. But assuming she logged off before getting your message...will she see your message the next time she logs in? If not, then I would approach her again and not even mention the first attempt.
Author wander1991 Posted December 12, 2011 Author Posted December 12, 2011 If she logged off on purpose because you asked her out, then you can assume she's not interested. I would let it go. But assuming she logged off before getting your message...will she see your message the next time she logs in? If not, then I would approach her again and not even mention the first attempt. yeah, she would see my message if she logged in next time, but the thing is I believe she got it because it said it transferred the first time I asked. I'm being silly, but I just don't think I would be able to let it go that easily. I mean the fact that I'm pumped and ready to actually try having a convo/asking out someone you are interested is hard to let go. This sucks!
CocoaBrown Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Hey I agree with the people who said she probably logged off before she got the message. I like when a man comes out and asks for my number instead of letting days or weeks pass by. If you are sure it went through maybe it's that she got nervous and handled it by logging off? Have you seen her online since? Have you seen her in person? I would say if you see her first just come right out and ask if she got the message. No biggie!
CocoaBrown Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 By the way if it turns out that she did log off cause she's not interested you have to let it go and respect her decision. You can get pumped over someone else lol
Author wander1991 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Posted December 13, 2011 By the way if it turns out that she did log off cause she's not interested you have to let it go and respect her decision. You can get pumped over someone else lol lol thanks for the reply. Yeah, I talked to her a bit face to face since she was in my group for class, I did talk to her online as well to try to get know her better. She has been online since that time, but I missed chatting to her since I was cooking yesterday. I'll try to chat with her when I see her online next time since I don't think she deleted/blocked me. I understand the part about having to let go if she is not interested, it's advice I'd give someone and what someone would give me like here online and what my friend told me today. It's just how often would I approach or be approached any day? I guess I'm still inexperienced about even talking to women I'm attracted to lol:love:
Author wander1991 Posted December 14, 2011 Author Posted December 14, 2011 Well, she went online a while ago and I decided to say hello and how studying for exams going. Didn't get a reply and she logged off a few minutes later. I guess I should just let it go.
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