She Disappears, Reappears After 5 Months To Reconnect - I Accept Than Cuts Me Off

[rocketboy9]

I must be somewhat braindead. I was involved with this woman back in August. She disappeared and told me how busy she was, blah, blah. So I backed off, didnt pressure her, wished her well and said stay in touch.

 

I have not heard from her in almost 5 months. The other day she reappeared. Wanted to reconnect.

 

I thought about it for a few days and said OK. I wrote a short note and said I havent heard from her in a while, lets catch up. Nothing romantic, no pressure.

 

Next thing you know she has cut me off AGAIN! Literally. She deleted everything and cut off all access.

 

What gives. I dont freaking get it. We never had a fight, no ill words.

 

Just leave me alone.

[Nexus One]

Sounds to me like she blew her chances with you, because she acted unreliable. The way she acted is no way to maintain a relationship.

[rocketboy9]

Her behavior is erratic. This is no way to treat a friend. You dont want to date me, thats fine.

 

She disappeared, but now you reappear and than cut off contact after you initiate? You sound like a whack job to me.

[forms]

Sounds to me 5 months ago she found a boyfriend. Recently she had a serious fight with him and was considering picking up with you again. But oops, she and her boyfriend made up and he insists she cut you off...so she did.

[smokey bear]

Sounds like a typical rebound story, runs back to you, knows its not right disappears for good, mike558 or whatever number sorry i forget? are you out there? are you reading this lol xx

[rocketboy9]

shes an ass

 

Pretty freaking rude and inconsiderate if you ask me. No fighting no nothing - you come back and than completely cut off.

 

What was the point of this exercise?

[Sith Apprentice]

Never let a woman put you on a backburner. I would have ignored her attempts to reconnect.

[snug.bunny]

What does "involved" entail? Sounds kind of evasive... Were you dating or were you friends? Not that that matters, when a friend or someone you are dating, just disappears for months on end without explanation, it's bothersome regardless. And if she's reaching out to you after that, to hang out, and still pulls the disappearing act, then she's not very much of a friend. I can't qualify what you described as dating, because it doesn't sound like there was any of it based on what you've described.

[xpaperxcutx]

Next time someone tries to worm themselves back into yoyr life consider how hard they'r woeking to do so and whether they actually deserve it. Most of the time it's no.