timpat92855 Posted May 29, 2004 Posted May 29, 2004 my gf and me were dating 5 years and 3 weeks. well 3 wks ago she left me. The story goes like this. We went to the park to have some quality time and i ended up kissing her (my first one)(im only 15) Then at school about a week later i told one of my friends what we had done. He went back and told her and she was PISSED. she told her friends and i didnt care but when i told mine she jumped down my throat. I tried to work things out and just being friends didnt work. we ended up losing contact all together bout 4 days ago. She said she still loves me but she cant. She is dating my cousin right now and im with myself. All i think about is her i think bout calling her but dont, she is the only girl i ever cried for, the only one i ever needed. What should i do? What can i do? im just so confused right now. whatever u reply dont say anthing bout my age
hurtingandconfused Posted May 29, 2004 Posted May 29, 2004 Sorry I don't understand...were you guys together when you guys where 10?? Did you guys only begin intimacy now?(kissing) Consider yourself more fortunate because of your age. Know that girls/men change their mind quickly. You think you know them but it turns out that you really don't. Do not trust any other person other than your family. (You'll figure things out on your own...just remember what I said.) People learn best by committing their own mistakes. What should i do? What can i do? im just so confused right now. Sorry, you are unable to do anything. You should focus on yourself and SCHOOL. Work for what you really want. Know that whatever you do, you cannot make someone feel a certain way towards you. It happens naturally. This is a sample of what life is all about. Get ready for it because it gets harder before it gets better.(After Jr. High, and High School.)
zoomer Posted May 29, 2004 Posted May 29, 2004 Oh darling, I won't mention your age because I was there once. I have been heartbroken over and over. Please listen.....I am 39 years old, married with children...lots of them....AND in Junior High this boy broke my heart..I wanted to die! Literally! When you first began experiencing love, and it is love, regardless of what people say. People tend to dismiss love because of the age thing...It's no different, we all just grow to learn more and experience heartache and LEARN from it! I eventually got over Mr. Right from Jr. High and I have to tell you I see Mr. Right now from time to time in the local grocery ...etc, and Thank the Good Lord above that I'm not with him! Believe me, there will be others that take your breath away. You hang in there and just enjoy your youth!!!!! I'm not alone in this either... You can ask anyone my age or around there...they will tell you, you're not alone!
zoomer Posted May 29, 2004 Posted May 29, 2004 ALSO...Best thing to do....Tell her, I told that we kissed because I was so excited....I am proud to be with you. ETC>> Be honest with her and tell her how you feel! All girls love honesty and she should forgive you and who knows...you two may stay together forever! Communication, talk, tell her the truth. Tell her why you told and that you NEVER meant to hurt her.
Author timpat92855 Posted May 29, 2004 Author Posted May 29, 2004 yes, hurtingandconfused we were dating at age 10. any-hoo that is what most people said bout how i should consentrate on school and myself but every since she left i feel like........i dont know. About the trust, I trust no-one but myself now... Thanx zoomer-to loose all communication is to ensure defeat-newayz she says that i lied and she thinks that when i tell her im sorry she doesnt believe me and all this other stuff that her friends keep telling her. ok im going to give some more details. She told me everything and i told her everything. People at school said we were PERFECT, even teachers said that(now thats bad) NOTHING could come between us. She had family issues that i helped her through and she helped me through mine (she kept me from taking my life) and now if MY problems come back and shes not there to help i dont know what im going to do. Her problems are similar to mine, i did the same for her. We are complicated people........why can she let go so easy and i can't?
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