Countryboy94 Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 IM 17 years old (male) and my girlfriend is 15 years old and we live in missouri and i was just wondering if you guys think the age differnence is a big thing at this age? What will happen when i turn 18? ( shes turns 16 same time i turn 18 ) Both of our parents are ok with the age difference and her dad is even a cop. So what do you guys think??
Nexus One Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 IM 17 years old (male) and my girlfriend is 15 years old and we live in missouri and i was just wondering if you guys think the age differnence is a big thing at this age? What will happen when i turn 18? ( shes turns 16 same time i turn 18 ) Both of our parents are ok with the age difference and her dad is even a cop. So what do you guys think?? Personally I don't think it's a problem. There's only a difference of 2 years between you two. You're also both minors. However, since you're the older one, I think you should treat her and the relationship responsibly. I don't see an issue. I suspect that you're fearing that once you turn 18, she'll still be considered a minor and that you can get sex offender charges thrown at you. That's basically what you're worrying about right? And since here dad is a cop, that can even be tricky. If her dad isn't a d*ck, he will not get you into trouble for it. However, understand that if you do have sex with her once you're 18 and someone does report you, then you can get into trouble with the law. Personally I think it would be ridiculous if that happened, since there's only 2 years between you two and you're both young. But that's my opinion, not everyone would necessarily agree.
kaylan Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 Youre both teenage kids. 2 years is nothing. No one will bat an eye at this.
Author Countryboy94 Posted December 10, 2011 Author Posted December 10, 2011 yeah thats what i was worrying about and her dad is nice but idk how he would react to something like that. And i didnt think it was a big deal since its only 2 years apart. Thanks for your input! But we only been dating for a week today and we both decided we would wait till we been dating 3 months and talk about it, we dont want to rush it.
Nexus One Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 No one will bat an eye at this. No sane person would, but there can be people that see it as an issue. If such a person reports him, then he could be listed as a "sex offender" for the rest of his life. I know...that would be ridiculous, but it would probably be wise for him to keep that in mind. It's not completely without risk.
Author Countryboy94 Posted December 10, 2011 Author Posted December 10, 2011 Don't have sex with her at all until she's 18. Problem solved. I dont think we can wait 2 1/2 years...but i have another question..if we have sex before i turn 18 is everything good no matter what? As in i cant be a sex offender??
kaylan Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 (edited) what are you guys talking about. Look up state laws. Most states its legal for an 18 year old or older to have consensual sex with a minor as long as the age gap is not over 3 years. Jeez. OP youll be fine And theres nothing wrong with teenagers learning about their bodies and what not. We have all done it and they are not at a super young age. As long as you guys feel ready when the time comes and practice safe sex. Disregard the post above mine. Edited December 10, 2011 by kaylan
Author Countryboy94 Posted December 10, 2011 Author Posted December 10, 2011 what are you guys talking about. Look up state laws. Most states its legal for an 18 year old or older to have consensual sex with a minor as long as the age gap is not over 3 years. Jeez. OP youll be fine And theres nothing wrong with teenagers learning about their bodies and what not. We have all done it and they are not at a super young age. As long as you guys feel ready when the time comes and practice safe sex. Disregard the post above mine. Thanks, and yes we will have safe sex shes already on the pill and i have condoms but like i said it will be awhile before anything happens i was just curious on how other felt on the age.
ZimboGon Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 I'll tell you something. I was 17 when i started dating my ex, who was 15. We dated for about two years, and it was great. (we had sex after the first two months, heh. I was her first, lead her through everything.) Unfortunately, at our age, there is a maturity difference. She was infatuated with me and in love with me, but she wasn't ready at that age to put forth the commitment i was willing to do. She ended up getting GIGS and leaving me pretty quickly for another guy after i graduated highschool. Do what you want, but when your a teenager going after a young girl, realize there is a maturity gap.
Author Countryboy94 Posted December 10, 2011 Author Posted December 10, 2011 I'll tell you something. I was 17 when i started dating my ex, who was 15. We dated for about two years, and it was great. (we had sex after the first two months, heh. I was her first, lead her through everything.) Unfortunately, at our age, there is a maturity difference. She was infatuated with me and in love with me, but she wasn't ready at that age to put forth the commitment i was willing to do. She ended up getting GIGS and leaving me pretty quickly for another guy after i graduated highschool. Do what you want, but when your a teenager going after a young girl, realize there is a maturity gap. I understand that, i tend to always like the younger girl just because they are funner to be around because they act alittle younger and i think that is what i like. i have another question, did any of you do anything special for your 1 week? Its our 1 week in exactly 46 min. and we both decided not to do anything for the 1 week, should i send her a text or write on her fb saying happy 1 week?
ZimboGon Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 I wouldn't do anything for one week. One month, yeah. But otherwise you are in the baby steps of your relationship.
Author Countryboy94 Posted December 10, 2011 Author Posted December 10, 2011 I wouldn't do anything for one week. One month, yeah. But otherwise you are in the baby steps of your relationship. Thanks what i was thinkin...
kaylan Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 haha cute that you count the minutes to an anniversary even if its just week. I remember those younger days and thinking of all those things. I wish you luck, but dont rush things. You guys are both young. And make sure you are sure of your feelings before sex with this girl. Because young guys such as yourself can end up with GIGS a lot of the time too. Peace broski
Author Countryboy94 Posted December 10, 2011 Author Posted December 10, 2011 haha cute that you count the minutes to an anniversary even if its just week. I remember those younger days and thinking of all those things. I wish you luck, but dont rush things. You guys are both young. And make sure you are sure of your feelings before sex with this girl. Because young guys such as yourself can end up with GIGS a lot of the time too. Peace broski Haha yeah we both got the date/time memorized
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