OOReeee Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 My dear Loveshackers, This is the third year I am back with you, and while in the first two the questions were about dealing with terrible break-ups, this time it is a little different, but since it is me, it is problematic nonetheless. I am in my mid 20s, a friendly and happy guy who always dated the worst women. I'm talking mentally ill at some points here. Over a year ago I moved to New York, and last spring I moved in with two lovely ladies, one I went to college with back in the west coast, and the other lived in the same intern housing as I did a few years before when we were interning in NY. We kept in very loose contact, but both were looking for roommates at the same time, and moved in together. We clicked from day one. We share the same interests, make each other laugh, do everything together, we became the closest to each other. And while I always thought it'd be nice to be with her, I was dating other girls, as she was coping with the end of a 5-year relationship only a few months before we moved in together. A few things that happened over the last few weeks made me get to the disturbing realization that I like her. A lot. I never met anyone like her and I feel like being with someone like that is an opportunity not worth passing on. During our first months together, there was sexual tension between us, we would get drunk and dirty dance, but we learned to channel it. But since she would always break the "touch barrier" and we basically talk all day, every day. Yes, I know, it's weird, unhealthy and mostly bad. Dating a roommate. But I can't help it, I don't know what to do, I will need to tell her sooner or later because I can't hold it in, but I am afraid of all the irrationality that involve this action. I was never in this situation or with a person like that. Ever. I am afraid, however, that she is still hurting the breakup, so I remain hesitant, but I do feel like I have to get it out orelse I will explode. What should I do? How should I do it?? Help!!!
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