aqua_world Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 i really feel sick writing this ... its taken a toll on me. so i have been working with a guy in a big techie company. we both r in competitive jobs and doing well.. i m 25 and he is 28. he is extremely quiet guy and i was not attracted to him at all. but when we started working more, i noticed that he would stare at me and look away every time i noticed him. he would just stand and stare when i walk by etc..i started thinking more about him, he is not very attractive, but the way he is quiet, shy etc made me feel he is very very very precious... i don't know cupid stuck me realllly hard..so i started talking to him more and stuff, he was very responsive and we always laugh a lot in our conversations etc ..he wd be shy ..and would always look out for me .. it was all very very cute.. but i wanted to go out with him instead of all these at work. i just mentioned to him, why don't we go get lunch? he says "may be"! but for the labor day weekend, when i was gng out of town, he made a sad face etc. it was all signals etc and smiles , shy it was all beautiful. when we converse more, he would act as if he is pissed and doesnt want to talk to me, so i just was sad and could not keep the conversation with him. Then he made me angry by avoiding me one day and i felt devastated. And as it was work, i was scared. So i just started avoiding him a little and he noticed that and started avoiding me even more, not talking to me etc etc. Then as we still work together , i tried being nice and we again became friends. the thing is i get really scared when he is around and i am soo paranoid. he also mentioned saying - why r u soo paranoid about ? And one more time i wanted to apologize to him regarding something and i was scared to tell him, he lead me through the conversation and he was saying - "tell me , tell me" ...and then when there was some construction going on, he says "Now I cant hear you, too much time" etc etc. It was soo obvious that he was expecting that i will tell him that i like him. we again got close, whenever we look at each other there is so much of chemistry. Every day is like something magic happening we have so much of chemistry. I was not able to keep that going this week, we were close , he tried to be nice to me on tuesday , but yesterday ie wed i told him " I am sad , cos i will be going on vacation" he says "why should u be sad abt that". i said "i m sad cause you will forget me by the time u come back" and he was just laughing. he then was staring at me and we were just talking talking .. but he never would ask me out or anything. today also we could not talk much , but he was looking at me sometimes. Thing is i m too much into him... and he seems to be taking it easy.. or he is atleast in self denial. I have seen him being very very attracted to me, i mean i can just see him. Also when ever there is some physical joke or something, he would really be very shy and happy. and he would also stare at me sometimes. I just dont understand ... I keep tellin myself, this will end. This is not real. He is not into me etc etc etc. But i keep going back to square one. I really like this guy. What do i do? I dont think talking to him is an option at alll. cause i have been *talking* for f-ing 6 months with nooo progress.. please help !!!! I just wish i had magic to make him mine !!!
Author aqua_world Posted December 10, 2011 Author Posted December 10, 2011 why is nt any1 replying????????
GildedLily Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 He seems like he enjoys playing with you. I'm sure he finds you attractive as well but you probably have made your interest in him too obvious. He doesn't sound like he wants a relationship or even a casual girlfriend because a guy would not wait 6 months to ask a girl out that he was very into. Move on to better guys who will pursue you and take a BIG interest in you.
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