RodG Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Well, still tomorrow technically for me, the 9th. Anyway, I haven't posted here in a while but I've come back because of this. I honestly wouldn't post here because I don't give a damn that it is her birthday, and posting would indicate that I do. I just want to pass along to the fresher dumpees that it WILL get better. I know it's a cliche and I heard it too, but it is the TRUTH. I'm almost 7 months out and I see the light at the end of the tunnel. She's off that pedestal. It'll be a friday night and god knows what she'll be doing. The nice thing is, I'll never know. I only wanted her back because I want what I can't have, and I have no one else. It was what was comfotable, it was all I knew. Even despite the fact I was never truly that attracted to her. I always went with my heart, never my mind. I'll spare the insults. There are good days and bad days still, but it's just something you'll learn to live with. I used to come here all the time, then it became a few times a week, then a couple times a month. Now, this site really only rehashes bad memories, so I kind of stay away. You know? You have to occupy yourself with things you enjoy. I've discovered weightlifting and exercising in general, and am in the best shape of my life. I've gotten back into snowboarding, something I stopped when I was with her. Look at everything positively. You really have to enjoy being alone, if you are to enjoy being with someone else. My time with this wench was if nothing, a learning experience. It will get better. No matter the situation.
hooliganization Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Thanks for the positive thread. I broke up last month, Dec 20th is my EX's birthday. Debating what to do. I still need my stuff back. I'm guessing I should get it back before then, because I really don't want to acknowledge it.
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