barriob Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 So its been almost 6 months post BU. And my ex recently text me out of nowhere just saying "sup." And i wrote back and then he would text me back like days later. Its like he is playing games. Why does he text me out of nowhere and then goes all distant for a while?
leoc1973 Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Its a psychological thing. Read about push pull or something like that, Google it. This seems like what he is doing. Also I noticed that you guys only went out for like 6 months. Time to move on dear... I don't think thats really long enough for a guy to develope a bond with a girl. I think he is playing games with just in case he ever wants some lovin or it might be that he is waiting on a girl to see if things work out with her first... You do not want to be anyone's plan B! Find someone who loves you for you! Wouldn't it be nice to be held by a man who only wants to hold you? Not be thinking about when he is gonna dump you again. Good luck stay strong and stop answering that douche bag he isn't who you think he is. Busy my ass when a guy wants a girl he will lose his job move to another country fight a guy twice his size. Nothing will stop a man when he loves you! Just go on some of the guys posts on here and read how foolish us men are when we are in love! Good luck.
smudge21 Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Agree with Leoc here, if he really wanted you, he would show it, not just send you little bread crumbs. My ex does similar and sometimes I do reply, but only in kind, never coming running; more just friendly but without saying much if you get me. You can either ignore his contact or respond with simply "what do you want, why do you keep texting?". Either way, don't let him play games with you. You're worth more than that.
twinkles Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 He's just testing the waters. He's wondering if you are over him or if you are still pining after him. Like Leo said you are a plan B. If he had wanted you back he would have called you and asked to see you so you could talk about the possibility of getting back together. A simple sup is just garbage don't accept that. Unless he makes a more serious attempt don't bother replying to him. Don't waste your time or your thoughts.
Space Ritual Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 So its been almost 6 months post BU. And my ex recently text me out of nowhere just saying "sup." And i wrote back and then he would text me back like days later. Its like he is playing games. Why does he text me out of nowhere and then goes all distant for a while? Because he can...which begs the next question....which will answer your first question... You have been broken up 6 months...why do you still have his number in your phone?
Space Ritual Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 What you have done without knowing it by answering his text(on top of recieving it in the first place) is put any healing you were undertaking back to square one....unless of course you accept the reason he did it is to see if he can hook up with you again...which is most likely the case. Please do yourself a favor and delete the number and please by all means if you have him on FB just delete and block him, because I am sure now if you haven't done it you may have creeped his page like 5 million times trying to figure this out? lol Its ok, it happens to the best of us.....but seriously eliminate this person from your life....he will come back and hang around like a fart at a taco stand if you let him....
mike588 Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 So its been almost 6 months post BU. And my ex recently text me out of nowhere just saying "sup." And i wrote back and then he would text me back like days later. Its like he is playing games. Why does he text me out of nowhere and then goes all distant for a while? Who broke up with who and why?
CaliBabe Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Breadcrumbs. He just wants to know if he still has you under his thumb. Show him he doesn't!!!
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