MGD3 Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 I seem to have more success dating women who approach me than with ones I approach. The women that approach me I am less attracted to in most cases. I act mysterious and do not give them much attention because I am not really interested in the first place and for whatever reason I tend to have great sex with them but the women turn out to not be serious relationship material. The women I approach are generally more attractive but less receptive and I tend to have to give a lot of effort to get and keep their attention and usually drive them away. When I listen to female friends and family advice and actually be more genuine and open and try to be the woman's friend first it doesn't lead anywhere but to friend zone or not talking to them at all anymore. There is a piece that I am missing (maybe a few) that once I figure it out, it will help me and a lucky woman establish a meaningful relationship! Any advice is appreciated.......
Pizzaman81 Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 That's because women you approach are picky. You on the other hand, are not very. You take them as they come. AMIRITE?
Imageiko Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 People don't want what they can have easily. You gave a perfect example in your post. You need to be more of a challenge to those you find attractive since you probably come off as needy or clingy when you put in more effort.
Author MGD3 Posted December 9, 2011 Author Posted December 9, 2011 That's because women you approach are picky. You on the other hand, are not very. You take them as they come. AMIRITE? I have thought about that before. Lots of my friends tell me I am too picky because through out the years I have been mostly single so it would seem they are right but you are also right in the sense when a woman does finally come along I am not as picky as I should be. Maybe part of the answer is in the numbers game. Increase my potential dates while increasing my standards while maintaining the rest of my life!!! Thanks for the feedback!
Author MGD3 Posted December 9, 2011 Author Posted December 9, 2011 People don't want what they can have easily. You gave a perfect example in your post. You need to be more of a challenge to those you find attractive since you probably come off as needy or clingy when you put in more effort. Thought I had moved past the needy behavior but what you say makes sense!
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