shrtlildramaqeen Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 I started dating a long time friend of mine long distance a few months ago. We really liked each other for a while, but then towards the end the distance started getting hard on both of us, and he realized he didn't like me as much as he thought. I was really upset, but knew that if he wasn't treating me the way that I needed to be treated, I didn't need to be dating him. We broke up two weeks ago in person. He came to see me, and we actually had one of our best conversations to date. If there is ever such a thing as a good breakup, this was it. Since our breakup went so well, I am sure that we will end up being friends. After the breakup I was ok, but would break down crying every day for about a week. Every day gets a little better, but it gets a little harder as well as I realize that I am loosing one of my best friends for the time being. I have decided that I need to cut off all contact with him until I am over him. I guess my question is, how long do you think I should wait before I start up a friendship again? There was no hurt feelings towards the other person, and since we've been friends for five and a half years, I would hate for this to end our friendship. Also, how do I begin to spike up the friendship over distance when it is time?
BoredAgain Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 There's no real time-frame for these things. You just have to move forward with your life until, one day, you realize that those feelings are gone. The amount of time that takes varies from person to person.
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