Wolf18 Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 If you understood the male psyche, you wouldn't be so paranoid about men looking at other women. When a man sees another physically attractive woman he says "I'd bang her, but I'd probably lose my girlfriend who I worked so hard to get, grown to care about and cares about me. Better the dog you know than one you don't know" When women see another physically attractive man it's " Wow he's so funny, intelligent and confident. I wonder if there's enough chemistry with my current guy??? " Suddenly every thing you do for your woman goes unnoticed, and the relationship fades. Just because women think 99% of men are physically unattractive, doesn't mean you are any better or less likely to react the same way or way worse (since women romanticize what their vaginas tell them) when you are met with a man you find physically attractive.
Negative Nancy Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 When women see another physically attractive man it's " Wow he's so funny, intelligent and confident. I wonder if there's enough chemistry with my current guy??? " Suddenly every thing you do for your woman goes unnoticed, and the relationship fades. Just because women think 99% of men are physically unattractive, doesn't mean you are any better or less likely to react the same way or way worse (since women romanticize what their vaginas tell them) when you are met with a man you find physically attractive. this isn't true at all. you have some pretty sick beliefs about women.
SteveC80 Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 I dont see being a criminal being looked at positively by women outside of minority communities The whole bad boy thign i thing is overblown,maybe some immature girls in high school that's about it..
PJKino Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 aside from the fact that i was just ironically trying to show the "other side" by using the OP's exact words, because women are in the same predicament, just with different factors.... ....because men are never satisfied with one woman, they always look at other women and can never make one woman at their side feel special or like the only one. so it's men who make women feel like they constantly have to compete. women want to feel special, like they are the queen to their man, and men's constant roving eyes and talks about other women can make a woman feel like she's just a "dime a dozen". as a woman you can never feel safe in a relationship because men cheat so much or would at least if they had the chance to. tons of men on here admit that they think about banging other women even if they have a girlfriend, that they envy women cos they can have sex at any time while they cannot, and tons of men cheat. it's like one woman isn't enough for a man, so even if a woman is in a relationship, she still hasn't "won", as you put it. i mean you even say it yourself in your second sentence: men throw out nets and can be attracted to many women at the same time, while women usually are happy with one man (i am at least). lol at this like women dont have wandering eyes or find other Men attractive once theyre in relationships:laugh: People in relationships are not are still gonna notice and be attracted to other people it doesnt make it wrong unles you act on it..
lino Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 lol at this like women dont have wandering eyes or find other Men attractive once theyre in relationships:laugh: People in relationships are not are still gonna notice and be attracted to other people it doesnt make it wrong unles you act on it.. enlightening isn't it? how stupid I was to think women perved on other guys and cheated on their partners. Thankfully I now know that only men do such things!
Woggle Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 this isn't true at all. you have some pretty sick beliefs about women. It is somewhat true. You hear all the time on here about women who start doubting their relationships because they see a hot guy at the supermarket and all of a sudden they can't get him out of their head and they start rewriting the entire relationship history. Men just look and move on. Not saying either but women looking can destroy an entire relationship while a man probably forgets what the woman looked like the next hour.
betterdeal Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 People in relationships are not are still gonna notice and be attracted to other people it doesnt make it wrong unles you act on it.. When you're on a diet, you can still look in the fridge. There's something of the Victorian attitude of sex being sinful in this thing where people expect their lovers to not find pretty / handsome others attractive. As one poster here said to his other half who was worrying about the fact she still found other men sexy, "we're married, not dead". The 1960s free love attitude was hopelessly naive and driven by more than a hint of wanting to have it all, but there is somewhere between the self-flagellating puritans and the f*ck a lampost if it has a pulse hippies. The fact you and I exist today is down to our very being having evolved (or been designed, take your pick) to be sexual. We are also spiritual, conscious, cognitive, logical, irrational, emotional, caring and selfish, social and independent creatures all at the same time. Our sexuality, our finding others attractive is part of what makes us us. Our (men and women) ability to restrain ourselves, to selectively act on those impulses is what turns the frantic crayon scribble of a lust-filled encounter into a masterpiece of fine art.
HellyaImhopeless Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 Good girls are very often attracted to bad boys ! The excitement. or thinking you can change them, like a challenge.. Some of thse guys are usaully extremely good looking, taking care of their appearance to nail more girls. They seem dangerous and exciting - some girls crave that. Being a good girl its so different from what we are and it intrigues us. I am totally hooked on a "bad guy" myself.. it's just something so mystifying and sexy about him that I can't get enough of - total attraction. The sexual connection is amazing too. We want a man that is dominant and confident, but who will look out for us and not try to hurt us -- this is known as the alpha male. When I hear the phrase "he's too nice" what we mean is he is a push-over. No such thing as too nice, but those that lack confidence and do not offer a little challenge gets boring very quickly. So in general we want something to keep us intersted and guessing a little. :laugh:
orion1010 Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 I seem it more today. Doesn't matter the race. If they have the baggy jeans, hat on backwards, and tatted up, starting trouble, acting like they don't give a f*** the women just swoon to them. I am not talking the fat nasty girls, I mean the hot women like you would see on tv. It just gets me every time I see it. I get my fair share but do I need to go to jail to get even more hot women? Ladies please explain this to me. I'd run if a guy like that approched me. Thankfully there are not too many of those types of guys where I live. Most men are the opposite of that. That type of man sounds like a hot mess who will just turn your life upside down. noooo thank you!!
OnyxSnowfall Posted December 14, 2011 Posted December 14, 2011 (edited) What does it mean to be nuts? A lot of traits I hear people refer to as "nuts" I find to be noble and beautiful. A lot of "nuts" and "intense" people are really just normal people living in an era where the mutants and robots control the narrative. One man's nuts are another mans...errr um well you get my point. Lol, the mutants and the robots --- WHY DOES IT TAKE SO LONG TO ERODE SOMEONE'S FALSELY CONSTRUCTED BELIEFS AND PERCEPTIONS? One day I will figure out how to expeditiously decimate such things (What's scary is I probably have my own, but I am not even aware... so how to make the necessary corrections? Being criticized helps though =P). I enjoy people that are passionate about particular subjects and causes, especially ones against the typical "understandings" and or "acceptances" of something....... while I've been called nuts myself in that realm, I am alluding to a different one altogether. The kind you're referring to can indeed be found as beautiful and worthwhile. This kind though? Is a completely irrational one =P... an "emotional" nuts. I am fine and others are fine if I'm not attached to someone...... but once I'm attached to them, chaos ensues. I become a possessive maniac =P, who wants to be mutually possessed. Hard times. People don't value anything these days exactly because they're NOT "nuts" or "intense" about them. The only feelings this new sophisticated modern human understands are: 1) that feels good on my pp place, 2) I'm Hungry 3) I need my ludes and bong , the life they talk me/drug me into living isn't very satisfying Stay true ponyboy. I will, will you? Hmmmmm, I'm not so sure about that being the reason they don't value things. Some things, perhaps. But I've known enough people who are nuts and intense about 1, 2, and 3 ... And LoL, ponyboy... I actually googled it. The Outsiders? Is it worth reading? Hmm. And you better >B ... I do, even when it's detrimental =P ... The merits of truth own any consequences anyway... those are trivial in the grand scheme of things... Edited December 14, 2011 by OnyxSnowfall
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