Bearlythere Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 So I started NC today for real!! I had already been doing NC for a couple days, but I sent a NC message today to explain myself. It was more of a mutual break with no real dumpee or dumper. We had been still communicating alot over the last month or so, mainly texts and emails. What I found was it was really holding me back, and messing with me. So I started NC contact a couple days ago, and the commincation got even more intense. Since we never really had a fight or closure I felt I atleast owed it to her to send a NC message so she knew what was up. Not sure if that was the best thing? So I sent the NC message and already had a repsonse. Along the lines of we will see what the future holds and things are right at the moment. I'm in full NC mode and will not repsond. Truth be known I don't know if I would go back if she was to try and reconcile. I hope that this will allow me to put this to rest and end the hurt and anxiety that I've had for the last month or so. Thanks for listening, and I have gotten some real good info off this board. Cheers from NYC!!
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