chphan Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Let me ask the opinions of all you guys and gals out there. I don't know if I'm being insecure or not. I believe I am but still... If your girlfriend has a facebook account and all her friends on the list are all guys and there are a lot of them. Would you raise an eyebrow and say, hmmm... something is up here? I have to be honest and say that if it was a mix of gender of friends I wouldn't have a problem at all. But when I notice that its a whole bunch of guys and the list keep growing.. I'm starting to wonder what's up with that. And to make things even more "hmm", she doesn't even add me to her friend list on there yet.
Philosoraptor Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I'd worry more that she doesn't add you than anything else. I'm a guy who just gets along with girls better. Never really been one for guy talk so I mostly have female friends and male friends who don't try to act all macho. The issue is trust and insecurity.
oaks Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 And to make things even more "hmm", she doesn't even add me to her friend list on there yet. So you're stalking her on Facebook? Have you talked to her about this? Why not?
BeyondtheClouds Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 So you're stalking her on Facebook? Have you talked to her about this? Why not? Facebook is a public forum. How do you think employers are able to see an individual's FB wall? Go villify them before you hassle dating partners. Now, where was I <<BTC straighening out her scarf.>> I agree with the other poster. You should be FB friends with her if you intend to continue dating her. I think everyone should roughly have a 50/50 mix of friends. Gone are the days of major universities (like Princeton, Vassar, etc.....) just going coed. So someone of one sex is not overwhelmingly surrounded by specimens of the opposite sex like in the olden days. Has she given you a reason why she has not accepted you? A no answer is a red flag. If you are accepted, then just watch to see if this of the kind of person that you want to hitch your wagon to.
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