Packman Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 (edited) First major breakup of my life occured 2 years ago. I found this site rewarding and it helped me deal with being let go by my ex-ex-ex. Since then, I've been dating around. Last year, I met someone who turned out to be an emotional wreck(Lasted 6 months). This year, I met a woman(May 2011)who I thought was the love of my life. She was everything that I had prayed for. Our similarities were baffling. We even mentally predicted when we would receive a call from each other. She was the best lover I ever had. When we had sex, it was if we became one. I have never been so happy at any point in my life before I met her. She had baggage from her prior relationships. She told me that I treated her better than anyone has. There were times that she assumed that I was out to hurt her. I had to assure her that I would never do anything that would betray her. She admitted that she imagined me out to get her because she never experienced a man like me. She had spent the entire weekend with me. Best time of my life. All of this ended this Monday. After work, I called her. She answered crying. See started saying "You know I love you right?" I asked what was wrong and she told me it was best if I called her from home. I go home and all of her stuff is gone. I called her asking why. She says that its better to break up with me now than to wait when its too difficult for her. I was floored. I tried to hold my tears but they came through the phone. She then stated that she did not see a future with me and that we did not have anything in common. I pleaded to see her but she declined. Then she said she had to go and hung up. I am so confused and hurt right now. How can this happen? We treated each other so well. I want to call her but I know I can't. What should I do? Edited December 8, 2011 by Packman
Philosoraptor Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Sounds like she had either been planning this for awhile or she made a snap decision and is taking her emotional issues from the past out on this relationship. To me, either way you need to stay away. If it's the former she knows what she is doing and truly sees life better without you or even has found attraction in someone else that she would like to explore. If it's the latter she may come back shortly but chances are she will freak out again and bail if it is due to her own emotional instability. If she does come back I would demand couples therapy to prevent this from happening again. Either way for now your best option is to not make any contact with her and to focus on yourself. You're single again, you can let it suck or you could make the best of it. Take care of yourself and do some of the things you have always wanted to do. Best of luck to you my friend.
mike588 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 You say she has emotional baggage from her past,,, maybe she went back to an ex.?
Author Packman Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 That's what I thought at first, but she was treated so badly by him that she refused to tell me out of fear of me hurting him.
mike588 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 That's what I thought at first, but she was treated so badly by him that she refused to tell me out of fear of me hurting him. Ha, my ex told me nothing but bad things about her ex. then she dumps me to go back to him.
swann Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I go home and all of her stuff is gone I've been there, Packman, I know how it feels. It's like being stabbed... Stay away from her.
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