Seriously why do some people complicate themselves

[samsungxoxo]

It's easy to move on in a relationship but lately some people complicate themselves with trust issues, jealousy or trying to get back with a cheater.

 

If it was marriage then it's a different story because you can't just break it off and act like you're single...... there are financial costs (in involves legal papers and the involvement of families).

 

However, if it's just a relationship then it's easy to dumped him/her. Other than an emotional investment, there is no actual benefit you're obtaining from it by staying in a pointless, dramatic relationship. It takes away your time and concentration.

[stillafool]

I agree. Plus you are wasting time when you could be open to a person who could really love you. It may hurt but the longer you stay the worse

the pain.

[samsungxoxo]

I agree. Plus you are wasting time when you could be open to a person who could really love you. It may hurt but the longer you stay the worse

the pain.

Yeah and before they know it, they realized years passed by and nothing has really been accomplished. I stayed in a meaningless long-term relationship with a man that never saw me as ''marriage material'' but he didn't have the guts to tell me in my face... instead kept me waiting with false promises.

 

I broke it off else I would have kept wasting my more of my youth... waiting for nothing. Had I know his answer was always a no from the start then I would have broke it off long ago and freely found someone realiable that wants to settle down. That's a horrible way to trick someone.