Pocahontas36 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I tried online dating for the first time, needless to say the sight I went on was straight out comedy! I exchanged numbers with this guy, he would text me everyday several times for 2 weeks, as far as his text goes he was very respectful, so I thought I'll give it a try and meet him for a drink. He seemed very interested in me, as we were equally attracted to eachother, only downfall is he works 2 jobs so he is always busy. After numerous atempts to get togehter we finally met up... To make a long story short I told him I wasn't available till a certain time, he ended up waiting for me about 2 hrs which by the way wasn't my fault, since I had told him I wouldn't be able to meet him until 9. His whole vibe was weird, I dont know if he was mad that he had to wait? he wouldn't really make eye contact and it didn't seem like he was happy to see me, he told me that bartending had helped him when it came to talking to people, because he was once very shy! could of fooled me lol I tend to be very sarcastic when I'm nervous so I'm not sure if that was a turn off. He by the way is equally sarcastic and I happend to mention that trait of mine in my profile, so it's not like it came to such a big suprise. At the end of the date he walked me to my car, I gave him a hug and thanked him for the drink, I could tell he was nervous he akwardly leaned in and gave me a peck on the lips, He asked me to text him when I got home safe. The next day I hadn't heard from him so I text him that night saying I hope he had a great day and goodnight sweet dreams, he replied same to you babe, he has never called me babe. Haven't heard from him since and it has been 2 days. I know this is a long story and anyone that reads it can you please help
Pizzaman81 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I tried online dating for the first time, needless to say the sight I went on was straight out comedy! I exchanged numbers with this guy, he would text me everyday several times for 2 weeks, as far as his text goes he was very respectful, so I thought I'll give it a try and meet him for a drink. He seemed very interested in me, as we were equally attracted to eachother, only downfall is he works 2 jobs so he is always busy. After numerous atempts to get togehter we finally met up... To make a long story short I told him I wasn't available till a certain time, he ended up waiting for me about 2 hrs which by the way wasn't my fault, since I had told him I wouldn't be able to meet him until 9. His whole vibe was weird, I dont know if he was mad that he had to wait? he wouldn't really make eye contact and it didn't seem like he was happy to see me, he told me that bartending had helped him when it came to talking to people, because he was once very shy! could of fooled me lol I tend to be very sarcastic when I'm nervous so I'm not sure if that was a turn off. He by the way is equally sarcastic and I happend to mention that trait of mine in my profile, so it's not like it came to such a big suprise. At the end of the date he walked me to my car, I gave him a hug and thanked him for the drink, I could tell he was nervous he akwardly leaned in and gave me a peck on the lips, He asked me to text him when I got home safe. The next day I hadn't heard from him so I text him that night saying I hope he had a great day and goodnight sweet dreams, he replied same to you babe, he has never called me babe. Haven't heard from him since and it has been 2 days. I know this is a long story and anyone that reads it can you please help First off, damn I fixed your paragraphs, reading a wall of text is as fun as cleaning the graffiti off the Berlin Wall. It seems like he was very nervous. For certain men, if he is attracted to you alot he would be like that. Some men, you can tell slightly but keeps his cool and confidence. Anyway, the kiss was a good sign, the "babe" was alright, a bit fast and creepy. 2 days is not that long. Just wait for his text, if he doesn't text back in like another few days, then something's up.
Author Pocahontas36 Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 Thank you Pizzaman, It's my first time ever posting anything so I could use the help lol! I guess I was just questioning myself, because he went from texting me everyday from not hearing from him? Who knows online dating can be sketchy, he might have been looking for a hookup and got the vibe from me that wasn't an option
Pizzaman81 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Thank you Pizzaman, It's my first time ever posting anything so I could use the help lol! I guess I was just questioning myself, because he went from texting me everyday from not hearing from him? Who knows online dating can be sketchy, he might have been looking for a hookup and got the vibe from me that wasn't an option Both online and real world can be sketchy. Then both online and real world has tons of great people just looking for what you are looking for. If this doesn't work out, don't worry, you will run into someone that will fit you better! Best of luck!
creighton0123 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Advice? Stop the text messaging. Both of you. Stop. Pick up the phone and talk. It'll make things so much more clear.
Author Pocahontas36 Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 We've talked in the phone several times, I just think if he was into me he would call or text right? He has done neither so I guess there's my answer lol! It's funny because he would always call me beautiful and when he saw me no compliment mind you I look exactly like my picture, so it wasn't like someone else was showing up for the date
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