Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 In my opinion, money is better spent (in terms of sexy results) on a gym membership and healthy food rather than expensive lingerie sets... Hurry up Ladies! Go get your healthy food and gym memberships! Don't buy any sexy underwear if you don't look like a Maxim model!
TheBigQuestion Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Hurry up Ladies! Go get your healthy food and gym memberships! Don't buy any sexy underwear if you don't look like a Maxim model! Yes, that's EXACTLY what he said. Be honest. Your sole purpose on this board is to stir the pot regarding women's body issues. It's laughably transparent and a surefire way to derail this thread.
TheBigQuestion Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 And now, in an attempt to undo my own contribution to derailing the thread in response to one of LS's resident intellectual lightweights, I'll answer the question posed: I sure as hell notice it, and it can certainly enhance the sexual experience. But if a woman isn't much to look at naked, her undergarments will be of little consequence.
ThaWholigan Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 (edited) I remember staying at a female friends house and she had on sexy lacy underwear. She said she had a boyfriend so I refused to do anything. I sometimes regret not making a move, because I was attracted to her admittedly, she was really hot. (we became friends because of mutual interests rather than me being an orbiter lol) She looked so hot and racy in it. We notice. Trust me. Edited December 8, 2011 by ThaWholigan
Elysian Powder Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Hurry up Ladies! Go get your healthy food and gym memberships! Don't buy any sexy underwear if you don't look like a Maxim model! Don't worry. if you suck cock half as good as you complain, you'll always be a man's first choice.
ThaWholigan Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Don't worry. if you suck cock half as good as you complain, you'll always be a man's first choice. Ouch, that was harsh! Even I felt that one......
Elysian Powder Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Ouch, that was harsh! Even I felt that one...... Honesty might shut her pie hole. Fingers crossed.
dispatch3d Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I am on the fence on this one. Prehaps you can show me some sexy underwear and I will decide?
ShannonMI Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Guys I'm interested to know ? If when getting to 3rd base or home run territory do you notice what the goodies are packaged in ? Or have I just spent a lot of money for myself! Some men notice and some men couldn't care less. Last guy I was with loved when I wore panties. Would beg me to wear them. I don't usually, so it was a special sexy thing when I did. Other boyfriend didn't care. Would tell me not to bother buying lingerie because he didn't feel like I needed it. So some men love sexy under things and others really don't care or notice.
O'Malley Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Some guys have specific tastes, others just focus on what's under the gift wrap. My guy likes boots, not much interested in lingerie. Either way, I'd tend to steer clear of the granny panties, frilly stuff, or the overly complicated two million hooks or ribbons types of garments. That's way too much work for the average guy to comprehend.
Wolf18 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I like it when women wear clothes like stockings and nice underwear, it also is exciting to undress the female, I would assume most men feel the same way. Perhaps there is more ecstacy and anticipation in undressing the woman than in seeing her naked from the start, depending on my temperment at the moment. If anyone here feels their underwear is underappreciated, PM me for my address where you can donate them, I run a charity that helps people with panty sniffing addiction.
ShannonMI Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I like it when women wear clothes like stockings and nice underwear, it also is exciting to undress the female, I would assume most men feel the same way. Perhaps there is more ecstacy and anticipation in undressing the woman than in seeing her naked from the start, depending on my temperment at the moment. If anyone here feels their underwear is underappreciated, PM me for my address where you can donate them, I run a charity that helps people with panty sniffing addiction. Hahahahahaha I don't wear panties too often so I can't contribute to your charity. Sorry about that. And what is with "panty sniffing"? Are they hoping to smell dirty vag or what? I don't get that.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Yes, that's EXACTLY what he said. Be honest. Your sole purpose on this board is to stir the pot regarding women's body issues. It's laughably transparent and a surefire way to derail this thread. I actually think it's time for you to be honest BigQuestion. I'm not going to make unfounded and offensive assumptions about your reasons for being on this board, it's too bad you can't claim the same. But I can say without any doubt that your sole purpose in responding to *me* specifically wasn't to engage in a mutually respectful conversation, even one where you disagree with me. It was to insidiously attempt to put me down for no other reason then you don't like me. You further went on in your silliness to not just share your opinion on the topic, but made a comment about having to deal with..how did you put it..."...one of LS's resident intellectual lightweights". Please. Anyone that knows me around here might not always agree with me but none of them would be so foolish as to refer to me as an "intellectual lightweight". This only makes you look cowardly and inept. Not me. At least I try to help both men and women on this board. Yes, I have my soft points, just as you do. But I really want men and women to have better relationships. Simply, men don't like it when women prize their money. And women don't like it when men prize their bodies. A lot of men here seem heck bent on belittling women, putting women down, or happily reminding women how much more their bodies are worth then anything else about them but manage to get upset if women evaluate them for how much money they make and how they deal with money in general. It's okay to make comments to women here about how women's bodies matters. But women just aren't allowed to respond to that are they? Yeah, it's no big secret that female body issues is a special topic to alot of women. Since alot of the men here decided to comment on not just their attraction or disinterest in lingerie, and took the conversation a step further and made it about women's bodies, not just what women wear to spice things up, I don't think I'm derailing the thread at all. I'm actually right on topic. Unless you want to make a comment to the men that took the conversation a step further. But my guess is that you don't since you followed up your own response making a comment about a woman's body in relation to sexy under garments. You'll notice if you go back and read the OP's original question, it had nothing to do with female bodies. All it asked was if men noticed sexy underwear. A couple men chimed able to answer the question in the manner it was asked. And other men chimed in openning the door to a conversation about women's bodies by their comments referring to them. You included. I just imagine what happens from men on LS when men talk about a man's worth being tied to his wallet. Again, men don't want to be prized for their wallets and women don't want to be prized for their bodies. Men don't want to be held to unrealistic expectations about their money and women don't want to be held to unreaslitic expectations about their bodies. Men still want to be attractive to women despite what they might not 100% measure up when compared to world "standards. Women are just the same. Why would a man even be with a woman to the point where she would be wearing something sexy for him to begin with if he didn't find her somewhat sexy?
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Don't worry. if you suck cock half as good as you complain, you'll always be a man's first choice. How about I just encourage him to make more money by working longer hours at work since women do like money. Just like how guys here are encouraging women to eat more healthy and getting gym memberships to be sexier? How's that sound? Fair?
Elysian Powder Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 How about I just encourage him to make more money by working longer hours at work since women do like money. Just like how guys here are encouraging women to eat more healthy and getting gym memberships to be sexier? How's that sound? Fair? Fine by me. the more he works, the less he puts up with you. And maybe he'll find a real woman. one that doesn't sound like my grandma when my sis' misbehaves .
ShannonMI Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Fine by me. the more he works, the less he puts up with you. And maybe he'll find a real woman. one that doesn't sound like my grandma when my sis' misbehaves . Enough dude. Don't be a tool box please.
TheBigQuestion Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 I actually think it's time for you to be honest BigQuestion. I'm not going to make unfounded and offensive assumptions about your reasons for being on this board, it's too bad you can't claim the same. But I can say without any doubt that your sole purpose in responding to *me* specifically wasn't to engage in a mutually respectful conversation, even one where you disagree with me. It was to insidiously attempt to put me down for no other reason then you don't like me. You further went on in your silliness to not just share your opinion on the topic, but made a comment about having to deal with..how did you put it..."...one of LS's resident intellectual lightweights". Please. Anyone that knows me around here might not always agree with me but none of them would be so foolish as to refer to me as an "intellectual lightweight". This only makes you look cowardly and inept. Not me. Well, you're either an intellectual lightweight, or you're intellectually dishonest. The post you quoted said nothing about anyone needing to look like a Maxim model, nor was it the implication. All he said was taking care of your health and appearance should be prioritized over buying sexy lingerie. What exactly is offensive about that? It's an expression of his viewpoint as to what he notices more, and is not off-topic. Did you notice that no other female took offense to any of the posts that echoed that same sentiment? I wonder why that might be. Maybe because they agree? Or maybe because they don't give a crap either way? The only people out there who are as dense as you are, who continuously warp everything to fit into the lens of their wildly preconceived notions, are usually either idiots or they have agendas that blind them from being able to accept anything others say at face value.
carhill Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 If when getting to 3rd base or home run territory do you notice what the goodies are packaged in ? That's affirmative. The better the quality and style, the less likely they are to come off, too. That's part of the beautiful agony thing
ShannonMI Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Well, you're either an intellectual lightweight, or you're intellectually dishonest. The post you quoted said nothing about anyone needing to look like a Maxim model, nor was it the implication. All he said was taking care of your health and appearance should be prioritized over buying sexy lingerie. What exactly is offensive about that? It's an expression of his viewpoint as to what he notices more, and is not off-topic. Did you notice that no other female took offense to any of the posts that echoed that same sentiment? I wonder why that might be. Maybe because they agree? Or maybe because they don't give a crap either way? The only people out there who are as dense as you are, who continuously warp everything to fit into the lens of their wildly preconceived notions, are usually either idiots or they have agendas that blind them from being able to accept anything others say at face value. I didn't take offense:o Being healthy is important. Looking good is important. Lingerie isn't all that important. And 350lbs woman in a teddy doesn't not sound sexy. That's just me though:o
TheBigQuestion Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 I didn't take offense:o Being healthy is important. Looking good is important. Lingerie isn't all that important. And 350lbs woman in a teddy doesn't not sound sexy. That's just me though:o Probably because you're a reasonable human being.
Feelsgoodman Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Well, you're either an intellectual lightweight, or you're intellectually dishonest. A third and most likely possibility is that she's both. That would explain why she comes across as so astonishingly obtuse. And the other poster was 100% correct. Ladies, spend your lingerie money on a gym membership and your shopping time on a treadmill. Lace panties from Victoria Secret will not make up for a flabby body.
Lonely Ronin Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 And the other poster was 100% correct. Ladies, spend your lingerie money on a gym membership and your shopping time on a treadmill. Lace panties from Victoria Secret will not make up for a flabby body. What are they supposed to do, if they already go to the gym 4 times a week and have a rocking body. I'ts like you assume that if she shops at VS she is trying to make up for something....
Feelsgoodman Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 What are they supposed to do, if they already go to the gym 4 times a week and have a rocking body. I'ts like you assume that if she shops at VS she is trying to make up for something.... If they already have a rocking body, there's certainly no harm in buying "sexy" lingerie, even thought it's not really necessary. If you have a Ferrari, do you really need to buy a set of fancy aftermarket rims for it? Usually, the people who buy those things drive old Civics or big, ugly SUVs. And considering that 75% of Americans are overweight, I'd say YMCA would be a better investment than VS for most.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Well, you're either an intellectual lightweight, or you're intellectually dishonest. The post you quoted said nothing about anyone needing to look like a Maxim model, nor was it the implication. All he said was taking care of your health and appearance should be prioritized over buying sexy lingerie. What exactly is offensive about that? It's an expression of his viewpoint as to what he notices more, and is not off-topic. Did you notice that no other female took offense to any of the posts that echoed that same sentiment? I wonder why that might be. Maybe because they agree? Or maybe because they don't give a crap either way? The only people out there who are as dense as you are, who continuously warp everything to fit into the lens of their wildly preconceived notions, are usually either idiots or they have agendas that blind them from being able to accept anything others say at face value. It's interesting to me that you aren't able to make your points without childish put downs BigQuestion. YOu continue to carry on with name calling as the main event to your posts. I'm fine with you disagreeing with my opinion. But you can't seem to do it without a lot of name calling being your filler as you attempt to pass it off as intellectually insightful discussion. You only make yourself look bad. Disagree with me if you disagree with me. But do so in the "intellectually honest" and mature way you seem to pride yourself. Because I have to tell you, none of your responses in this tread currently reflect that. I already explained everything I had to say in my previous post to you. Choose to ignore it all you want. The orginal question to this post didn't have anything to do with asking men about what type of bodies they liked. It was about sexy underwear. A few men took this "oppurtunity" to highlight the importance a woman's body plays over any other factors. By the way, you ignored my question. If a man and woman where to the point of her wearing sexy underwear for him, doesn't that imply that he already finds her sexy? Suggestions in this thread about getting gym memberships and eating right were not done in the spirit of really caring about women and their "health". It was done in the spirit of attempting to motiviate/manipulate women (mind you women that the men here don't even know the shape of their bodies or if they already work out or eat right) into working on their bodies not because it would enhance a woman's life but because of what men want out of women and what men want women to be. Lets not pretend anything differently. We both know that the comments here made about women's bodies weren't made because the men here are thinking about women first. They were made because men are thinking about themselves first. And since the original question of the OP had nothing to do with what men thought of women's bodies, only if sexy underwear was nice to them, I find you pretty darn hypocritical to attack me for only commenting on something where other men decided to take it. BigQuestion, I don't have much of an issue with you disagreeing with me. I have an issue with your continued put downs while pretending your responding intellectually. Learn to have a conversation, even one you might disagree with, without feeling like you need to make the majority of your post about put downs instead of conversation. Your opinion will be much more respected that way.
Els Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 I can't really speak for tman, but geesh, DY, I honestly think you completely misappropriated his (completely fine) statement of personal opinion. If you genuinely want to argue with men spouting misogynist stuff, tman is not the guy to go after.
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