Damia Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Guys I'm interested to know ? If when getting to 3rd base or home run territory do you notice what the goodies are packaged in ? Or have I just spent a lot of money for myself!
LZ2000 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Erm. My answer will be direct. Yes. I do notice sexy underwear. 1
insertnamehere Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I never got the sexy lingerie thing with women. No one sits in a baseball park watching a triple play unfold and suddenly remarks about how the ballpark features the city skyline so perfectly.
patagonia Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 sexy underwear is probably one of my biggest weaknesses. So yes, I def notice sexy underwear on a woman.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 If the goodies are good, the packaging can sweeten the deal. I'd say don't kill yourself to buy fine lingerie if you're not so perfect--older, heavier, not well-proportioned. Spend the money then on something that covers in a sexy way rather than advertises flaws. Many people are loved for who they are and not how they stack up against a sexy persona.
missed_theboat Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I love wearing sexy things for my man--cheekie underwear that hit just the right spot on my ass, etc. But he always ends up ripping them off within the first 8 seconds of me having them on, so I always wonder what the use is. I guess the rock-hard erection is a pretty good indication of the purpose (not that he ever has any problems anyway, regardless of my panties). He always says, "I'm not much for the wrapper, but I'm a sucker for what's inside." Typical. <3
Pizzaman81 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 That's pretty much the only thing I notice. True story.
Author Damia Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 If the goodies are good, the packaging can sweeten the deal. I'd say don't kill yourself to buy fine lingerie if you're not so perfect--older, heavier, not well-proportioned. Spend the money then on something that covers in a sexy way rather than advertises flaws. Many people are loved for who they are and not how they stack up against a sexy persona. I'm a small build with a C cup .So I think I look Ok for an older chick. A sexy persona is not something I have ever been able to pull off so don't think I will start trying now , lol yes I do dress nice on the outside and enjoy nice underwear.
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 My bf doesn't really. Or even if he does, he takes it off within seconds. He will notice me dressed sexy and want to do it more if I say wear: short skirt, high heels and he has a thing for fishnet stockings. He also has a thing for sexy nighties.
Andy_K Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Notice? yes. Care? Not very much. If the underwear is coming off, how good it looks before it's removed doesn't make a whole lot of odds. But it's nice to know she's made the effort.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 We mainly notice them coming off. But as far as regular underwear the ones that hug your butt cheeks have always been a favorite of mine just for general wear. But yeah if you did the job right we'll rip em right off.
Frogwife Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I'm a huge fan of garter belts and stockings... (and -shock horror- I fall into the "older and heavier" category which apparently shouldn't be spending money on sexy things??? haha)... The men I've been with go crazy for them because you can remove the bra and underwear so the "good things" are accessible but keep the garter belt/stockings on so they have something sexy to look at... I look and feel sexy and they love it, so it's win-win... Of course, this is France (with a lingerie store every 100 meters), so maybe French men appreciate it more?! But I would imagine it's rather universal.
Els Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 But he always ends up ripping them off within the first 8 seconds of me having them on, so I always wonder what the use is. I guess the rock-hard erection is a pretty good indication of the purpose (not that he ever has any problems anyway, regardless of my panties). He always says, "I'm not much for the wrapper, but I'm a sucker for what's inside." Typical. <3 Hahah, this pretty much sounds like my experience. I guess it depends on the sort of man - I would wager that my bf 'likes' them (or at least definitely doesn't DISlike them ), but they really don't rank high on his list. He appears to be that way about clothes in general. The good part of that is that I can pretty much chill around the house in an oversized tee and old shorts, and he'd still be, uh, raring to go. It's nice that I don't NEED to dress up to be romanced and to turn him on. The bad part is that dressing up sexually on occasion can be fun, but it'd probably be more fun if the guy enjoyed it more.
Million.to.1 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 My latest Ex never noticed my amazing underwear collection. They would be off in 5 seconds. It used to annoy me because there was no feeling of being unwrapped like an exciting gift. Often we would just get undressed and get into bed. I really like being undressed by someone, rather than taking off my clothes myself as a thing to do before getting into bed. :-/ But then again.. he was, in retrospect, pretty boring in bed all round. Not bad, but just not adventurous. I like variety, hence my epic underwear collection. His loss.
Soxfaninfl Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Sexy underwear is very nice. I like seeing my girl friend walk around her house with them. Women that wear granny panties are a turn off.
tman666 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 For me, the contents of the package are more important than the wrapping. That being said (as others have mentioned), a good pair of sexy undies can definitely ramp things up . My tastes for "sexy" underwear might be a little different though, in that I prefer simple styles (low cut bikini style, boy short-style, etc.) over the frilly stuff. In my opinion, money is better spent (in terms of sexy results) on a gym membership and healthy food rather than expensive lingerie sets...
runner Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 My latest Ex never noticed my amazing underwear collection. They would be off in 5 seconds. It used to annoy me because there was no feeling of being unwrapped like an exciting gift. Often we would just get undressed and get into bed. I really like being undressed by someone, rather than taking off my clothes myself as a thing to do before getting into bed. :-/ aw that's too bad. i think sexy underwear is just a part of the foreplay, and i almost always likes me some good foreplay. creative foreplay dripping with anticipation But then again.. he was, in retrospect, pretty boring in bed all round. Not bad, but just not adventurous. I like variety, hence my epic underwear collection. His loss. hence the 'ex' status
EnigmaticClarity Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 That's pretty much the only thing I notice. True story. That's like saying you prefer the carton on a pint of Ben and Jerry's more than the taste of the ice cream itself. I notice sexy underwear. Current girlfriend isn't into them...I'm letting that slide for now, but if we stick together, I'll eventually try to change her mind about that. Right now I'm so enthralled by her figure it doesn't really matter much, tight shirts stretched over her thin frame and double-Ds get me going every time anyway.
make me believe Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 When I was single I ALWAYS got compliments from guys about my underwear. My husband notices and compliments me too. I always make sure that I match, even if it's just a plain black bra and black panties. It was always interesting to me when I was wearing something that I thought was cute, but not spectacular, and a guy would go ga-ga over it. I had this one hot pink bra that was cute, not particularly sexy or anything, but it seemed to be one of the surprising favorites of some of the guys I dated.
EnigmaticClarity Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 It was always interesting to me when I was wearing something that I thought was cute, but not spectacular, and a guy would go ga-ga over it. I had this one hot pink bra that was cute, not particularly sexy or anything, but it seemed to be one of the surprising favorites of some of the guys I dated. It's almost certainly because even though what you're wearing is simple, YOU'RE spectacular. If your curves are kickin', even a pair of simple Hanes gets me going.
Art_Critic Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I notice them but I'm not making love to a pair of underwear so they need to come off as quickly as possibly to get to the goodies..
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