GK92 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Hello. 19 year old man from Sweden here, and I seem to be having a big problem with love in general. I have a lot of friends, and most of them have girlfriends and boyfriends, most of which are very serious. These friends almost always come to me for advice about their relationships, and I always get praise for my good advice even though I never been in a serious relationship myself. I am also always the first person people come to when something bad has happened in their relationship. I am always the shoulder to cry on. I've been depressed for quite a long time now, and I've finally figured out what makes me feel so sad, also angry: It's the fact that I feel so alone. People around me are so lovey dovey, and I can really see how much they care for each other. It makes me really jealous and sad. I've met three interesting girls over the course of three years, all of which ended in: "I can't really see anything else between us. I want us to stay friends though. Because you are such a nice guy!" Why is it that my "good advice" never works on a girl I am interested in, but that they work for my friends in their relationships? Am I destined to be there for everyone else, but never have someone to care about and who in turn cares about me?
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