NothingButLove Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I've been dating a guy for about three months. In general, he's a pretty nice guy and we get along okay; I just don't feel any real spark there. I haven't from the beginning but thought I should hang in there because we got along so well. Of course, he has some bad traits, too, but I'm not sure if they're really that bad or if they seem that bad because I'm not that into him. People always say that they married the person they didn't initially pick. How long until you realize it's just not going to happen?
Soxfaninfl Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I've been dating a guy for about three months. In general, he's a pretty nice guy and we get along okay; I just don't feel any real spark there. I haven't from the beginning but thought I should hang in there because we got along so well. Of course, he has some bad traits, too, but I'm not sure if they're really that bad or if they seem that bad because I'm not that into him. People always say that they married the person they didn't initially pick. How long until you realize it's just not going to happen? Well if you feel like ending it, and you haven't felt a spark by now then I would end it now before he develops real feelings for you. I'm kind of in a situation where I'm thinking of ending my realationship cause this girl im seeing is not into me as much as I am into her. We have been dating for two months.
whichwayisup Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I've been dating a guy for about three months. In general, he's a pretty nice guy and we get along okay; I just don't feel any real spark there. I haven't from the beginning but thought I should hang in there because we got along so well. Of course, he has some bad traits, too, but I'm not sure if they're really that bad or if they seem that bad because I'm not that into him. People always say that they married the person they didn't initially pick. How long until you realize it's just not going to happen? Since you never felt anything from the start, not even a small spark, it's time to end this. It's a waste of your time and his. And don't even think about marriage! That's the LAST thing you should be thinking about it!
Cracker Jack Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Throw it in now. You're clearly not into him, so don't continue wasting his and your time.
snug.bunny Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 How long until you realize it's just not going to happen? If not by after the second date, then nada.
Author NothingButLove Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 Well, marriage isn't actually on my mind; I was just referring to that general theory. But, I know I should end it. I just hate that I don't feel more for him.
Soxfaninfl Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Well, marriage isn't actually on my mind; I was just referring to that general theory. But, I know I should end it. I just hate that I don't feel more for him. You can't make yourself feel something that is not there. It sucks. I had a girl tell me she was in love with me after two months of dating, but I wasn't feeling it for her. The sex was amazing. I cared for her, but I still had feelings for my ex-wife and wasn't over her yet. I started to date too soon.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Usually the most exciting part of dating is at the beginning. If you do not feel much at the beginning then hope is slim
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