Mark1 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 -7/10 in class. Never talked to me. -Sees me at bar -She is tipsy (Im sober) -She is all over me -Tells me she wants to get dinner with me sometime -Each time I have texted her, she has an excuse (legit. ie out of town) -Rarely does she suggest another time -I was ready to move on but I see her on campus a lot -Asked her out to dinner, just like she asked me (3 weeks ago) -She replied, "Hi I'm kind of seeing someone right now, but that's very nice of you! I'm so sorry!" -Remained friends -Didn't ask her out again Update: -Remained acquaintances/friends -Last week tell me she wants to hang out with me and my friends from our old class (girls and guys) -Finds me at my work today, jokes that she knew I'd be there because she "stalks me" and asks when me and my friends are hanging out again because she wants to join us -Discuss this change of heart on her part -Should I suggest we go to a bar after? -How do I treat her? flirt? ignore? just be nice?
WhiteChocolate Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 -Discuss this change of heart on her part -Should I suggest we go to a bar after? -How do I treat her? flirt? ignore? just be nice? Do what you want. Flirt if you want to, ignore her if you want to "punish" her, be nice if you wanna be a nice guy.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Do what you want. Flirt if you want to, ignore her if you want to "punish" her, be nice if you wanna be a nice guy. Punish her a bit... then go after her
Feelsgoodman Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 80 views, 2 replies? You are getting so few replies because no one wants to tell you the obvious...and the obvious is that this girl is a classic example of an attention whore. Next time a drunk woman you've never talked to before is all over you, don't take her too seriously (but do try to bang her the same night).
Necromancer Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 This is why i take drunk girls never seriously,What Feelsgoodman is the answer!
oaks Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Anyone? You bumped your own post after just 22 minutes? -Should I suggest we go to a bar after? -How do I treat her? flirt? ignore? just be nice? Ignoring her would be rude, but it's an option. Do you think she's just teasing you to get attention without offering anything? Do you want to date her? If you do ask her to go to a bar afterwards, and she says 'no' or anything other than either 'yes' or 'yes but at a different, specific, time', then just forget about any further romantic involvement because that would be a very strong hint that she just isn't interested.
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