lovesong14 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 (edited) Hey guys! So here is my situation any advice will help and will definitely be appreciated! As I am in need of it!! Thanks My ex sporadically contacts me and I've asked him to respect my wishes to be left alone. We've been broken up a little over a year and since then he has been in two failed relationships. On the other hand, I am single and I've "sorta" moved on. My ex seems to contact me when he isn't in a relationship. Recently we ran into each other, he asked me why I was distant and I told him that I frankly wasn't ready to be his friend. After that he randomly text me and asked what I was doing, small talk. At first he was nice but then he became a total jerk with short responses like he didn't care. My question to you why is he contacting me all of sudden? What should I do if he contacts me again? Should I email/text him and express my feelings towards him? I'm confused and I hate feeling like he is stringing me along, because I feel like I still love him but then I again I don't because he isn't the right person for me. Background info on relationship: I was his first gf we are both in our 20's. We were together for about a year and half. Broke up due to arguing and him wanting his space. Edited December 8, 2011 by lovesong14 spelling
mike588 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Hey guys! So here is my situation any advice will help and will definitely be appreciated! As I am in need of it!! Thanks My ex sporadically contacts me and I've asked him to respect my wishes to be left alone. We've been broken up a little over a year and since then he has been in two failed relationships. On the other hand, I am single and I've "sorta" moved on. My ex seems to contact me when he isn't in a relationship. Recently we ran into each other, he asked me why I was distant and I told him that I frankly wasn't ready to be his friend. After that he randomly text me and asked what I was doing, small talk. At first he was nice but then he became a total jerk with short responses like he didn't care. My question to you why is he contacting me all of sudden? What should I do if he contacts me again? Should I email/text him and express my feelings towards him? I'm confused and I hate feeling like he is stringing me along, because I feel like I still love him but then I again I don't because he isn't the right person for me. Background info on relationship: I was his first gf we are both in our 20's. We were together for about a year and half. Broke up due to arguing and him wanting his space. He's probably lonely and horny. He wanted his space so give it to him,, ignore him.
Author lovesong14 Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 He's probably lonely and horny. He wanted his space so give it to him,, ignore him. I suppose, as far as the space situation that was the background info on why we broke up over a year ago. I have never iniated any type of contact with him. It's always been him contacting me. But you're right I will ignore him. Thanks!
thepedestrian Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Would you be interested in rekindling things with him? Sounds like you can do better. If not just send him a text and make it very clear. "Listen, I'm not ready to be friends with you now. When I want to talk again I'll contact you." Or something along those lines, but make it clear and direct.
Author lovesong14 Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 Would you be interested in rekindling things with him? Sounds like you can do better. If not just send him a text and make it very clear. "Listen, I'm not ready to be friends with you now. When I want to talk again I'll contact you." Or something along those lines, but make it clear and direct. No, I would not rekindle things with him. He is very indesive and when it comes to relationships he is very immature. He has not changed and I can tell by the way he continues to act. I have told him in the past that I would contact him when I'm ready to be friends. Apparently, that didn't work. I guess I'll have to be even more direct or flat out ignore him. Thanks for your advice!
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