you_can_not_see_me Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 so question to girls here how often do you approach men, and if you do is it only for men you are really attracted to?
Author you_can_not_see_me Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 so no girl here ever approached a guy she wanted to date?
somedude81 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 LOL, where did you get the idea that girls ever approach men?
missed_theboat Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I have approached guys I wanted to sleep with, but in terms of relationships, men have always approached me first.
snug.bunny Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I have. One was through a mutual friend who contacted me and suggested I contact a friend of hers but of whom I never met directly (though we had been in the same vicinity at one point years prior, but hadn't officially met). Another time was with someone I was friends with beforehand and had hung out with in the past. The one I mentioned first, I hadn't met face-to-face, I only saw pictures and he looked cute enough . The last one I mentioned, I had already hung out one-on-one with him so I was already attracted to him at that point.
Oxy Moronovich Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 LOL, where did you get the idea that girls ever approach men? I was wondering the same thing. It also depends on the definition of "approach." Some women think asking a guy they like the time of day or asking a guy to add her to his Facebook friends list is approaching. I'm serious. Women have said this. My definition of approaching a guy is different. It's only approaching if she chats him up and directly makes it clear she wants to see him again. That can be done by exchanging numbers or setting up a date. If you're using my definition then I'd dare to say the number of women who approach men are so small they are virtually nonexistant. However, there isn't a shortage of lying women who will say, "Well, I'm different. I've directly asked dozens of guys on dates in my life." They might be bold enough to say the majority of relationships they've gotten into were as a result of them directly approaching men.
Elysian Powder Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 LOL, where did you get the idea that girls ever approach men? From looking at average and above average men being approached?
Author you_can_not_see_me Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 I was wondering the same thing. It also depends on the definition of "approach." Some women think asking a guy they like the time of day or asking a guy to add her to his Facebook friends list is approaching. I'm serious. Women have said this. My definition of approaching a guy is different. It's only approaching if she chats him up and directly makes it clear she wants to see him again. That can be done by exchanging numbers or setting up a date. If you're using my definition then I'd dare to say the number of women who approach men are so small they are virtually nonexistant. However, there isn't a shortage of lying women who will say, "Well, I'm different. I've directly asked dozens of guys on dates in my life." They might be bold enough to say the majority of relationships they've gotten into were as a result of them directly approaching men. well this girl approached me after class a few days ago when I was walking away and started up a conversation with me. I got the impression that she was interested in me because we were sharing glances for a few days now in class and some very small talk. I haven't had a lot of girls approach me like this in the past, so I was wondering this really meant that this girl was attracted to me? cause I am really attracted her:p
Author you_can_not_see_me Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 LOL, where did you get the idea that girls ever approach men? you are right most don't and that's why I asked. In all my years, only two girls ever did anything even similar to approaching me. one asked me to be her lab partner, and the other just a few days ago after class.
WhiteChocolate Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 well this girl approached me after class a few days ago when I was walking away and started up a conversation with me. I got the impression that she was interested in me because we were sharing glances for a few days now in class and some very small talk. I haven't had a lot of girls approach me like this in the past, so I was wondering this really meant that this girl was attracted to me? cause I am really attracted her:p Then yes she "approached" you! Now next time ask her out go for it!
Oxy Moronovich Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 Go for her, dude. I think she likes you.
Author you_can_not_see_me Posted December 8, 2011 Author Posted December 8, 2011 Go for her, dude. I think she likes you. Then yes she "approached" you! Now next time ask her out go for it! with you guys' blissing I will do just that, even though I am a little intimidated by how hot and confidant looking this girl is
insertnamehere Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 we were sharing glances for a few days now in class Ah, the lookies. I miss those days when I could just sit in a chair in a classroom and flirt with girls. In my experience, a girl regularly giving you the lookies is a major indicator of interest. Sound the trumpet! Advance! This girl is yours for the taking. I'm going to go wallow in my nostalgia for a few minutes. The lookies . . . hehehe . . . I miss my youth.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 9, 2011 Posted December 9, 2011 Men do the chasing people. And when they don't get a response back they feel confused... should they continue to chase? Or is the lady playing hard to get? <sarcasm>So much time left in this world to find out! </sarcasm>
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