CatalystBrought Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 After my breakup, I did some things that I am not proud of. I didn't give my former the space she deserved, and it got to the point that she said she never wanted to see me again with great anger and defense. I've got myself in the right state of mind. I've since moved to the city, and I haven't seen her in about 3 months. Deep down I feel extremely guilty of the things I've said/done. I wish to leave her a small gift for Christmas with a small note, with clear apologetic and fruitful intentions. I honestly could not live comfortably knowing I passed an attempt to make peace. You live once, and I'd rather make the attempt at a healing notion than to let a hatred scar simply fade. Do you think this would be interpreted in a bad way? Thanks LS
BoredAgain Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I think we've all done things we're not proud of after a break-up. My advice would be to give it more time. Wait until you're healed from the breakup, then call to apologize. ...otherwise, like you said, you'll be sitting there worrying how she'll interpret the message.
lolita jade Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Did she break up with you? And are the only things you have done wrong in your eyes is act needy?
Author CatalystBrought Posted December 7, 2011 Author Posted December 7, 2011 I think I am pretty healed. (I moved for this sole reason), I just feel like she deserves a positive occurrance, even if by me. And lolita, yea I was pretty desperate and needy. Our last confrontation didn't go well at all. I think I really scared her. I'm so guilty and embarassed, but I don't think I'm the only one.
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