tom_gbr Posted May 28, 2004 Share Posted May 28, 2004 i really dont know what to about something i just found out today...i found out that i am going to be going on holiday the exact same time as my ex girlfriend...and to the same place! the original time that my mate had booked for us to go was the week before so the dates wouldnt clash but it all changed at the last minute and now i dont know what to do. if you have read my threads before you will know about me and my ex.....we met last summer on holiday....we are both going to be in the exact same place again at the same time! some of my mates have said that i shouldnt worry about it as there is probably a very slim chance that we will ever bump into each other....but my best mate who is going is seeing my ex's best mate...he met her when i met my ex... so we are bound to see each other in a bar or a club. im nearly over her....but thinking of seeing her kissing some guy in a club....i dont know how i would deal with it. it makes it worse that we live two hours apart so this will be the first time that we will see each other since we have broken up...and it will be at the place where we first met. i really dont know what to do.....if i dont go on holiday, it will be like im being a coward and also i wont be able to have a holiday with my mates.....but on the other hand if i do go, it might be upsetting for both of us and it might ruin her holiday and mine...not to mention awkward. she has no idea that we are going at the same time...she will find out when my best mate tells his girlfriend. my ex might think i have done this on purpose in the chance of us getting back together...she might hate me from this happening. this holiday was the main thing i was looking forward to....help me....i dont know what to do! Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted May 28, 2004 Share Posted May 28, 2004 If you are worried about what your ex thinks...don't. WHO CARES WHAT SHE THINKS, she is your EX. You will be there with all of your friends....how could you have possible orchistrated this entire thing to see her? If she thinks that, she's got a BIIIIIIIG HEAD. Also, seeing her with another guy may be the closure you need. What makes you think she will be with a guy any way? Also, you'll prolly hook up with some girl, so maybe she'll see YOU with someone else Maybe, just maybe, since you two still care for one another, meeting up in the place you met might be just the romantic bump to get you back together. Just go, have fun, and don't look for her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tom_gbr Posted May 28, 2004 Author Share Posted May 28, 2004 im not saying she will be seeing someone but she might meet someone in a club or something...i still care for a little but im not sure if she does anymore. i know i should care what she thinks at the end of the day i deserve a holiday as much as she does that last thing you said about it may be what we need for us to get back together.....i cant think like that as it will give me hope which is really not good for me right now thinking like that. if anything i can show her how much better i am looking since ive been apart from her....im on my way to having a body like brad pitt your right im just gonna go and have fun....just see what happens Link to post Share on other sites
estakado Posted May 29, 2004 Share Posted May 29, 2004 Time to man up and put on your game face homie! If you run into her, act like you didnt see her or knew she was there and proceed to talk to another female. If she wants your attention dude then make her work for it. Trust me dog, if you been workin out and focusing on yourself and she sees it then she'll notice the confidence. Keep your guard up! Link to post Share on other sites
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