joystickd Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Women are conflicted on this because on one hand they don't like them because of their choice of being with many women but like them because it makes them feel good because they were chosen out of many women.
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 (edited) Women are conflicted on this because on one hand they don't like them because of their choice of being with many women but like them because it makes them feel good because they were chosen out of many women. Players have game. They know what to say to get into your pants. They make you feel good. Are they good guys? Not always. 9 times out of 10 they are playing you and playing a few other chicks at the same time. No thanks. I'll take a nice gentlemen that's all about me any day or a suave player who has the ladies lined up. Edited December 7, 2011 by ShannonMI
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I hardly think of it as an "art." It's … playing.
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I hardly think of it as an "art." It's … playing. Yeah it's not an art. Being a good guy, a gentleman AND getting the girl to drop the panties is more of an art then being a player.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 The point of being a player would be to not choose one woman, so I'm not sure how it is not considered a dark art or at least negative, unless as a woman you just feel like getting off on it. However I think that is the spectrum...on one side you have the nice guys and on the other you have the more player-like qualities. You need some game typically to get somewhere with a woman obviously, or she'll just be turned off by you being too forward and appearing desperate. The more options a man has the more he is seen as a player though, the guys with less options are typically the "good guys". Most women say they want a good guy but they hardly are attracted to them, If it were as easy as being a good guy things would probably be flipped around from the way the world is now. Oh, and most guys who call themselves "players" typically are not, just because they get a few dumb, clingy, low self-esteem women so they think they are the gods of earth. It's like racing against handicap people and calling yourself fast.
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 In my opinion, guys who seem preoccupied about being "players" don't have much going on. The REAL "players" aren't talking and posting about it all over the Internets (except the guys who are making all the money off their worshipful disciples). Real players just are being who they are.
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I will tell you that most women are not going to feel privileged about being picked out of many potential women for a self - proclaimed "player" to "bang." Yes, the usual low self esteem targets might (like attracts like). Generally, though, such guys are viewed as "dogs" and we all know what that means; they'll "bang" anything that will hold still long enough.
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I will tell you that most women are not going to feel privileged about being picked out of many potential women for a self - proclaimed "player" to "bang." Yes, the usual low self esteem targets might (like attracts like). Generally, though, such guys are viewed as "dogs" and we all know what that means; they'll "bang" anything that will hold still long enough. Yeah players are not my cup of tea. They may be hot and know what to say to me, but I want a good guy who will treat me well. I have a normal self esteem though, so perhaps that's why.
Art_Critic Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I hardly think of it as an "art." It's … playing. When I did it.. it was an "Art" It's mostly about really good confidence used to separate a woman from her panties..
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 When I did it.. it was an "Art" It's mostly about really good confidence used to separate a woman from her panties.. It's not an art. If the dude is hot and says some nice things and the chick is horny and/or has low self worth, her panties will come off. Simple as that:cool:
Art_Critic Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 It's not an art. Humor... I just can't be expected to explain my jokes...
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Humor... I just can't be expected to explain my jokes... Yeah yeah I get it, Art:p
dasein Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Seduction is an art that everyone, male and female, who wants to achieve their goals in life should spend some time cultivating. Being able to "turn someone on" is an important part of dating, sex and relationships.
Jynxx Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Seduction is an art that everyone, male and female, who wants to achieve their goals in life should spend some time cultivating. Being able to "turn someone on" is an important part of dating, sex and relationships. Quoted for only valuable post itt.
somedude81 Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Players have game. They know what to say to get into your pants. They make you feel good. Are they good guys? Not always. 9 times out of 10 they are playing you and playing a few other chicks at the same time. No thanks. I'll take a nice gentlemen that's all about me any day or a suave player who has the ladies lined up. If only more women thought that way. Too many want a player and don't care if they have to share.
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 If only more women thought that way. Too many want a player and don't care if they have to share. Girls that only go for players are not worth your time. So don't feel bad if a chick that goes for the dogs isn't into you. Consider yourself lucky. While she shares a player with his many ladies, shes also sharing herpes with him and them as well. Yuck!!
oaks Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I don't think I understand the question. Is there a Harry Potter reference in there somewhere?
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I don't think I understand the question. Is there a Harry Potter reference in there somewhere? Yeah like it's some black magic sh*t or something. A dude with wand and a hat. More like a penis and some willing girl's vagina. Have you noticed our resident troll has finally left the building, Oaks? I hope I don't jinx us by saying it:eek:
MrNate 2.0 Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 A dark art? Then what's a light art? I'm just mean all the time. lol. But I'm also funny as hell. And an aspiring stripper:cool:. This is MrNate's art.
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 A dark art? Then what's a light art? I'm just mean all the time. lol. But I'm also funny as hell. And an aspiring stripper:cool:. This is MrNate's art. Hahahahahahaha are you a troll or what?
oaks Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Yeah like it's some black magic sh*t or something. A dude with wand and a hat. More like a penis and some willing girl's vagina. Now you're reminding me of "I put on my robe and wizard hat" (google it) Have you noticed our resident troll has finally left the building, Oaks? I hope I don't jinx us by saying it:eek: Probably found some other gewgaw to keep themselves amused. Meanwhile I've still been building up my ignore list and suddenly this forum is a lot less ridiculous.
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Now you're reminding me of "I put on my robe and wizard hat" (google it) Probably found some other gewgaw to keep themselves amused. Meanwhile I've still been building up my ignore list and suddenly this forum is a lot less ridiculous. Yes I'm so glad. I was thinking about abandoning LS actually and now i don't have to. I have still been putting a few people on ignore though. A really bitter poster that does nothing but woman bash and this other clown that was harassing me over PM. I'll tell you the story in a PM. Crazy sh*t.
MrNate 2.0 Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 (edited) Hahahahahahaha are you a troll or what? You know I am a normal, male human being Shannon..who is strongly considering showing some skin for cash. Another woman objectifying me. Men have feelings too. Edited December 7, 2011 by MrNate 2.0
ShannonMI Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 You know I am a normal, male human being Shannon. Another woman objectifying me. Men have feelings too. I haven't received that private dance yet. Me, you, some baby oil and it's on:p;)
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