CM2009 Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 Hey fam this is a weird situation that I need the answers to, I kinda know the answer but I wanna see what the general public thinks. I met this young lady about a month ago and it's been kinda hot an cold with her, she'll talk and text with me one minute then she disappears the next and I don't hear from her for a while. Example she'll text me out of the blue and start a conversation and all of a sudden in the middle of the convo she just stops texting and I don't hear from her for a looooong time. And then hits me up outta the blue with somehing like "hey baby," then a few wks ago she invites me to a mini get together with her family and friends at her place (mind you we never hung out until then) we have a good time so I'm thinking all is well. She hit me up a few days later wanting to hang during the weekend so we plan on goin out to eat and hanging out. Weekend comes up and we're suppose to go out that evening so I ask her what time is she ready to go out and she says I'll get back to you in a min so I'm like ok no problem so I went to run some errands, but she never did call me back and we never went out. Now I don't mind not going out but I hated the fact that I waisted a weekend evening where I could've been doing something else. Ok so since the. I haven't heard from her, should I hit her up and see what happened or should I see if she'll hit me up or just count my losses and get the hell away. I dont want to be to pushy but then again i don't wanna be played for a sucker thanks fam for letting me vent....
CarrieT Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 You are the back-up plan for activities and so far, she hasn't needed to back up which is why you haven't had consistent conversations with her. Cut her loose.
Author CM2009 Posted December 7, 2011 Author Posted December 7, 2011 I figured as much..... Oh well on to the next!!!
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