wreckedhero Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 And has asked if I want to go for a drink again. I'd say i'm 90 per cent over her. It has been 7 months and I don't think about her incessantly anymore. She did say going out with me was the worst mistake she ever made so I poured scorn on her ex boyfriends looks. Well I texted her saying it would be a bad mistake since I was her worst mistake and I think she goes out with ugly people and has no standards. Well I got drunk last night, was xmas night out with work and made a big mistake texting her saying that I still fancied her and that I wanted to rip her clothes off whenever I saw her and that I reckon she still fancies me otherwise why would she be texting me? The thing is I wanted to exude some arrogance and confidence to her and I'm thinking what if she does actually want to use me as a rebound thing? Since I'm 90 per cent over her would it be a mistake to go for a drink as "friends"? Anyway she hasn't replied to my silly texts. I'm just looking for a bit of advice on what to do if she does? Should I go no contact again. I do have feelings of hatred for her but I suppose deep down I'm interested in what her feelings are towards me and if she see's I've changed and become much more confident and assertive then she'll rekindle her feelings for me. The thing is I don't get the butterflies over her anymore so I should be over her which means I can treat her as a laugh. Any suggestions on what to do and what her motives are? Why hasnt she texted me back lol?
BoredAgain Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 No, I have no idea what her motives are or why she hasn't texted you back. But let me play Jiminy Cricket for a moment. You write that you could go out with her, have some *fun* and "treat her as a laugh." Is that the right thing to do? When you're 100% over her with the ability to be friends again, how do you think you'd feel about treating her as a laugh?
mike588 Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 And has asked if I want to go for a drink again. I'd say i'm 90 per cent over her. It has been 7 months and I don't think about her incessantly anymore. She did say going out with me was the worst mistake she ever made so I poured scorn on her ex boyfriends looks. Well I texted her saying it would be a bad mistake since I was her worst mistake and I think she goes out with ugly people and has no standards. Well I got drunk last night, was xmas night out with work and made a big mistake texting her saying that I still fancied her and that I wanted to rip her clothes off whenever I saw her and that I reckon she still fancies me otherwise why would she be texting me? The thing is I wanted to exude some arrogance and confidence to her and I'm thinking what if she does actually want to use me as a rebound thing? Since I'm 90 per cent over her would it be a mistake to go for a drink as "friends"? Anyway she hasn't replied to my silly texts. I'm just looking for a bit of advice on what to do if she does? Should I go no contact again. I do have feelings of hatred for her but I suppose deep down I'm interested in what her feelings are towards me and if she see's I've changed and become much more confident and assertive then she'll rekindle her feelings for me. The thing is I don't get the butterflies over her anymore so I should be over her which means I can treat her as a laugh. Any suggestions on what to do and what her motives are? Why hasnt she texted me back lol? Are you nuts? She tells you going out with you was the worst mistake she ever made! Don't meet with her,talk with her or respond to her ever again! You say your 90% over her,, well that 10% will make you fall for again and you'll get hurt all over again. Yep, go back to N.C.
Author wreckedhero Posted December 7, 2011 Author Posted December 7, 2011 I think she's just using me for an esteem boost. Well I hate her for the misery she's put me through and I'm angry at myself for giving her that boost. She was asking me to do her a favour the other day. I didn't reply. I just wish she wouldnt do my head in like this and I knew what her intentions were definitively. I think she said I was her worst mistake because i wasnt complimentary about her to her friends.
mike588 Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 I think she's just using me for an esteem boost. Well I hate her for the misery she's put me through and I'm angry at myself for giving her that boost. She was asking me to do her a favour the other day. I didn't reply. I just wish she wouldnt do my head in like this and I knew what her intentions were definitively. I think she said I was her worst mistake because i wasnt complimentary about her to her friends. You "THINK" she said that because you were not complimentary to her friends,, maybe she really means it? That's an awful thing to say about you if she loves/loved you! Don't do her any favors,, do yourself a favor and write her off. She's just using you because she feels she still can and your allowing her to "do your head" like this.
Author wreckedhero Posted December 7, 2011 Author Posted December 7, 2011 How can you be friends with someone who says that? Yeah I think you are right. Being without her in my life was better tan having her in it.
stunned8165 Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 I would love to hear that my ex gf new man cheated on her. She cheated on me with him. Oh man I would love that. What comes around goes around.
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