9Lives Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 I just wanted to a friend to some of you and tell you not to focus so much on NC and focus more on moving on. NC can turn into a stupid game that you play with yourself. You are suppose to to moving on, that is why you are not talking to your ex right now. Try not to focus on the NC thing. It makes like torture to you. Focus on moving on and thats it.
PinkPunkCosmo Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 its true what your saying, but some of us do it in the hopes that the other will realize or come to their senses before its too late to try and do something. once you have done everything in your power to make it work, we kind of wait that window period for them to make a move, once they dont eventually you have to get in to your head that, thats it you did everything in your part and they didnt then you move on. Unless the relationship ended in extremely bad terms beyond fixable ends then okay you go straight to moving on in my opinion i guess.
Author 9Lives Posted December 6, 2011 Author Posted December 6, 2011 its true what your saying, but some of us do it in the hopes that the other will realize or come to their senses before its too late to try and do something. once you have done everything in your power to make it work, we kind of wait that window period for them to make a move, once they dont eventually you have to get in to your head that, thats it you did everything in your part and they didnt then you move on. Unless the relationship ended in extremely bad terms beyond fixable ends then okay you go straight to moving on in my opinion i guess. I get all of what your saying. Really tho, the best positive outcome you want is BETTER if you really really really move on. This is coming from someone who did the nc thing, was going crazy trying to stay....blah blah blah!!! Most of the people I know who decided that their ex is not right about letting them go and tried to MAKE the other person changed their mind...they reconciled relationship is even more damaged or you develop alll these insecurities inside of you. Alll of the negative feelings. Dont play the NC game. Just go on with your life and it will be much better in the long run
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