ToothpasteLove Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 (edited) These games are frustrating.. hot and cold.. where are we.. gah. She wasnt feeling good as shes come down with the flu, so i packed up my bag, tissues,teddy, snacks, dvds and headed over to her place to help her feel better.. she loved it.. thanked me, said no one has been that thoughtful before. We cuddled for about 6 hours just talking and laughing, gave her a back massage as she asked. She layed her head on my lap and i was running my fingers through her hair, kissed her on the forehead.. then she told me she loved me and i told her i loved her too. So youd think was an amazing day right? Well where has she gone now? Shes ignoring me thats what shes doing. We've been dating for about 3+ months now.. she didnt want labels just yet and i accepted that, said id take this at her pace, she has told me before that commitment scares her of been hurt and hurting someone.. and this is the second time shes backed off.. last time i asked her what was going on and she just got pissed and we went back to normal.. Anyone know whats going on with her? Should i ignore her? Give her a text asking whats up? A call? Any help please.. i would like to be with this girl, because when we are together we are amazing.. but she has this habit of backing off. Edited December 6, 2011 by ToothpasteLove
spinaroonie Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 You've been dating for 3+ months. Have you two had sex yet?
Eddie Edirol Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Dont chase after her. Let her come looking for you. If she doesnt, you know she wasnt as serious about you as she claimed. Has she told you she was IN love with you? You might be a rebound.
phineas Posted December 7, 2011 Posted December 7, 2011 You've been dating for 3+ months. Have you two had sex yet? THIS! if you arn't getting any freeze her out. If you are & she's still pulling this crap don't contact her. let her come to you. i'd suspect she's either f'ing someone else or just totally f'd in the head & you don't need people like that in your life. It's tough to pull the plug, but you gotta do it. If she blows up your phone you can tell her you want an explanation but even then, she'll probably do it again.
Author ToothpasteLove Posted December 7, 2011 Author Posted December 7, 2011 Yes we are sleeping together and ive also met her friends and family, i have no idea why she does this.. has to make it so complicated..
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