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I have a baby with a girl I have known for about 4 years. We dated when we lived in the same state, I broke up with her then she told me she is pregnant. This was about a year ago. She moved to east coast and now we are far away. I have seen her twice a year since the birth of baby.

 

To give you some background on our relationship, we dated, she moved away for college, we visited each several times and hooked up, never officially being together, then she moved back, she got pregnant. This was over a span of 3 years.

 

Anyway, I still have strong feelings for her, we talk daily like we are together, the only reason I do not want to be with her is because I want to play the field and we are young, 22 and 23.

 

I will add more as it comes to mind.

 

What are your thoughts/advice on this?

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I have a baby with a girl, the only reason I do not want to be with her is because I want to play the field and we are young, 22 and 23.

 

 

Dude are you for real?! I don't even know where to start, I am lost for words.

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Dude are you for real?! I don't even know where to start, I am lost for words.

 

Understood.

 

To clarify, she told me she was pregnant AFTER we broke up.

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Get a DNA test. That is the ONLY way to know if that kid is yours. It's a helluva lot cheaper than paying child support for the next 18 years. And, if you don't get a test and pay the money over a period of time, the courts will rule you are the "real" father and you will have to continue to pay regardless.

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