lucy13xoxo Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Okay, so split up with my ex simon a month ago, and I kinda fell for another guy called declan. As I got with declan my ex said he still loved me (but he didn't know about declan) Now, I love my ex so much, and I can see myself with him a while, but we've been on and off for sges. Like we have split up 5 times in two years having month breaks. Declan however is gorgeous, and I really get butterflies for him. He's lovely. And he really likes me. Who do I honestly choose???
Seneca Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Yourself. (Seriously) Figure out what you want. You have the answer.
ScienceGal Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 In my experience, lusting over someone new to the point that it makes you question your relationship indicates that there are serious problems in your relationship. You say that you've broken up multiple times, so it doesn't seem like a healthy partnership. Don't use the new guy as an excuse to leave. New lust fades in time, so you should be thinking about what kind of relationship you want and whether either of these men can truly offer that to you.
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