Live in girlfriend is staying with a friend for a few days

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She says we're too co-dependent on each other and that she needs to figure out how to be happy. I was completely floored since it came completely out of nowhere. I can't sleep and I can't eat. I have no clue what's bothering her since she refuses to tell me til she figures it out.

I understand that she's going through a rough patch but I'm not sure how to deal with this all. I have no clue when she's coming back and she doesn't want to talk to me.

I want to stay together but I don't know how or if I can forgive her for turning my world completely upside down. 2 years ago I put my future on hold to move several states away to live with her and support her through school. Now I'm not sure I can get that future I had back. I thought it was worth it until she walked out. Now all I feel is a mixture of anger/sadness/anxiety and pretty much every negative emotion there is.

I have very very few friends and I don't communicate well or really even get along with my family, so her 'getting some air' as she put it has punched a huge hole in my life.

So since I am completely alone emotionally my only option is to seek advice from strangers on the Internet.